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My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Jennylane26 » Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:10 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and I love him very much. He told me he had a vore fetish in the beginning of our relationship. He had hinted he had one before and was very ashamed of it and hadn't told anyone, but when he told me I reacted with complete acceptance and told him I didn't think it was weird or bad at all and if he needed to incorporate his fetish into our romantic life he could. I still stand by that, I don't think its wrong or anything.He originally wanted to rub/squeeze my belly which I told him was fine with (it actually feels very nice) but then he stopped doing this as much and started touching my breasts. As of recently though, I tried giving him a handjob and his penis kept on going soft. He then admitted he wasn't aroused by my breasts at all and seeing me or other women naked didn't excite him or thinking about/ watching porn with sex, even though he said he found me beautiful and seeing me as a model in a swimsuit fashion show at uni before we went out did make him find me attractive. I tried to react as calmly and positively as I could but he was still upset about not being able to perform for me or finding the "normal" things attractive. I tried to comfort him the best I could but was at a loss for words so I decided to post here to get some ideas about what to tell him. I completely accept his vore fetish and don't have an issue with it but don't know how to please him, I have large breasts but a very small, flat waist region.Will he be able to get erect and have sex? How could we put vore elements into our sex life so he could finish? I just want him to be happy and be able to please him. Any ideas would help, thank you!
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Gypa » Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:29 pm

Welcome to the forum. But not sure how I could advice you since I do find women hot in general and them in vore turns me on. So its important for me to have them naked before I get eaten by them or eat them. But your boyfriend seems to be bit diffrent or he has deeper trigger. I Think you should try roleplaying with him with vore theme that might get him going. If that fails maybe he should seeks some professional help since the paraphila (when fetish takes control of one is own life) has consumed his sexlife.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby animedog » Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:36 pm

You could try insertion. He could try insertion with you, you could try it with him. Insertion helps me because it reminds me about unbirthing or anal vore. This will NOT work with everyone. Especially if he only likes oral vore.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby animedog » Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:42 pm

Another thing you can try is to learn more about vore and see if you like it. If you like it, then think about what pleases you with vore. Talk to him and see if the same thing works for him. If you want to learn more about vore and would like help, then just give me a pm. ^^
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Rat_Haus » Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:55 pm

maybe, try role playing with him?
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Newton prox » Sat Mar 10, 2012 9:04 pm

animedog wrote:You could try insertion. He could try insertion with you, you could try it with him. Insertion helps me because it reminds me about unbirthing or anal vore. This will NOT work with everyone. Especially if he only likes oral vore.


This works with me too.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby didhejustsaythat » Sat Mar 10, 2012 9:11 pm

try vorishly talking dirty to him.

one thing i like3d that my girlfriend used to do was, she'd walk up to me and ask me if i knew how her tits got so big. then she'd tell me that it must've been the girl she ate earlier. then she'd let me fuck her tits while she talked dirty about me loving what the girl did to help her tits grow.

things like that'll probably get him up and able to perform. :3

but once again, that's as to my vorish likings. i'd have to know more about his vorish habits, what he likes about it?
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby William » Sat Mar 10, 2012 9:11 pm

Just a thought;
Since he likes rubbing your belly, maybe that's a focus area.
Try rubbing it slowly yourself in front of him, smiling, and inform him that it feels sooo hungry (or empty). Then rub up against him and growl that he knows what you need to fill that desire.
Variations on this basic theme should be easy enough, and lots of fun.
See what gets him excited, and try pushing the role playing a little further in that direction.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Newton prox » Sat Mar 10, 2012 9:34 pm

Am I the only reading some of these suggestions and rolling my eyes?
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby redsquallff8 » Sat Mar 10, 2012 10:01 pm

well you can use a cam..that would get his rocks off or make him think about vore during sex.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Shrapnel333 » Sat Mar 10, 2012 10:15 pm

You seem to have some decent communication. Try talking to him and ask him what could help. If you're willing to incorporate his fetish into your sex life, and you've made this known to him, work together to actually do it. The tips above might help, but I think an open communication channel would be more conducive to getting his motor running. After all, if you try something and it doesn't fit into his specific tastes, he may react poorly. Rather than risk that, see what he wants you to do. Worse that could happen is he doesn't have any ideas (which seems unlikely), and then you're just back to asking random strangers on a fetish forum for tips, so no real loss.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Jennylane26 » Sat Mar 10, 2012 10:56 pm

Thanks for all these tips! They have really shed some insight and it was kind of you to respond. He initiated pretending he was inside my stomach for a while with me telling him he was "trapped" which he asked for, but he eventually said it stopped arousing him (I said that was probably because he doesn't like to be inside people, he prefers being a spectator). I have asked him several times for ideas or things I can do and told him I was open to whatever he needed but he claims there is nothing because it is impossible to re-create in real life and my belly isn't large enough to pretend someone is inside it. He said he wished he could ask someone from home or our uni with the same fetish so I figured I'd come here. He likes watching human vore (girl on boy), big bellies, seeing someone trapped and thats really all the info he said he could think of.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Chibisama » Sat Mar 10, 2012 11:06 pm

I don't really know if I can give you any advice but I just wanted to say that you are obviously a really awesome girl friend for everything that your trying to do for him. I hope you succeed in your mission! X3
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Katievore1 » Sat Mar 10, 2012 11:16 pm

Something you can do that doesn't require you gaining weight, is you can pretend that you shrunk someone and ate them so they would fit and you could keep your girlish figure. Take a short video of yourself close up with your mouth open and so he can see your throat through the footage. Rub your stomach and say that the number of people you shrunk and ate were satisfying and you'll soon be hungry again. You could try to give a tiny belch or something. Also, you might be able to eat a strawberry and pretend all the specks are tiny people that don't want to be eaten, but they were asking for it because they were on top of your food. Take time to lick the strawberry and make sure there's some serious oral vore elements. Like saying "yum" or "Mmmm" and pat your stomach for emphasis. Mabye put sprinkles on his penus and pretend that they are tiny people that you want to swallow. There's a lot of ideas but it sounds like your boyfriend really needs to be into the fantasy to get turned on and it sounds like you need to think outside the box for this one. Or should I say, inside the stomach. Anyway, I think it's sweet that you are so considerate of your boyfriend to and even came onto a vore website to ask for advice for him. I'm a girl who is into giant and giantess vore, so I see both sides here. It's probably very difficult for him and it sounds like he really wants to put on a show for you. I can tell that you love him and want to help him do just that. You guys sound like a very sweet couple and I'm sure you'll figure things out. Good luck hun.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby whoa » Sat Mar 10, 2012 11:58 pm

Hmmm

- Definitely belly rubs
- Let him listen to your stomach noises (put his ear against your belly)
- Eat food seductively / swallow big portions and say that you transformed someone into the food
- Talk dirty about it
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Scion » Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:03 am

he clearly has a porn/fetish addiction, weening himself off his fetish will help.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby Lithalya » Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:21 am

Good luck with things. Only dated one other person with a vore fetish and we ended up the same way as you and your boyfriend at the moment. My partner was only aroused by vore-related things, whereas I view vore as one of many things that I'm semi-aroused by. It's not always my "cup of tea", especially when people take it to the point that it interferes with their ability to interact with non-vore people (i.e. never able to stop thinking about it). We eventually broke up because I could not deal with the person having every waking thought consumed by this fetish. I feel bad about it, that perhaps I'm not as accepting as I thought I was...but some people really are way too obsessed with vore. Best wishes. :)
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby SkyCastle » Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:52 am

Well I'm into vore but none of the above are things that I would find sexy at all. In fact, I would find it a huge turn off if my gf tried to implement vore in foreplay. Each person is their own brand of sexual interest. No one here can help I I think, you're just going to have to get him to open up a bit more I guess.
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby ublover1 » Sun Mar 11, 2012 2:26 am

whoa wrote:Hmmm

- Definitely belly rubs
- Let him listen to your stomach noises (put his ear against your belly)
- Eat food seductively / swallow big portions and say that you transformed someone into the food
- Talk dirty about it


yeah i agree with u if this dont turn him on about vore nothing will lol:)
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Re: My boyfriend's vore fetish

Postby AwesomeAustin21 » Sun Mar 11, 2012 3:32 am

I am in your boyfriends shoes but without the telling my fetish part. I always just kick up the old imagination and imagine my girlfriend ate someone or has a large belly. You allowed him though to get to the point where he can no longer fantasize and instead desires real life scenarios. The problem with this is that vore is mostly a fantasy/fictional. The kind of vore I like and what you mentioned that he likes are irreplacable in real life.

What I always imagined as turning me on even if fake is:
-Stuff a pillow in a shirt and say vorish things. "Mmm that cat was delicious..." Or "That kid didn't go down easy."
-If you could handle swallow largish bits of food so he can see a bulge or your throat pulsating... Always a turn on.
-Licking lips and rubbing your belly erotically.
-Laying down on a bed/couch and making the sheets bulge out near your stomach so it looks large.
-Pretty much anything that makes your tummy look large.

Sorry if my suggestions are over the top or anything but try to wean him off of vore. Vore for me is like K-Y intense or sex pills. It is meant to enhance the experience not be the experience. Have good luck with your love life.
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