Who have you told about your Vore fetish in Real Life?

[ArcaneSigil]

I told my ex girlfriend, using Nitro Titans artwork as a sort of "Show and Tell" kinda thing. She's not really a voraphile now, but she seems to like vore enough to discuss it openly. I've also told two other girls that I like, and we've rped vore before, but otherwise, they're the only ones that know. My immediate family doesn't, though I've discussed Vore with them every now and then, not as a "This is my fetish, if you don't like it too bad."

[C-B-A]

vore isn't an orientation or lifestyle so you can't "come out" about it, when you tell people your just telling them a very awkward part of your sexual life. family? why the hell would you tell your family? they have absolutely NO reason to know. I have 1 friend who knows but I didn't tell him, he just found out, but what ever.

I don't see why people feel they need to tell their family about their fetishes, they don't care if your into vore, furry fandom, or something else random and a fetish, not a lifestyle or orientation.

[Whitepieceofpaper]

I've told 4 people in the past. Three were friends (only 1 of them I still talk to) and the other was my dad. They were all generally accepting of it, aside from one of those friends. -_- I'm perfectly fine with sharing my fetish with really close friends, especially if they have weird kinks too.

[Kharon]

NO ONE.
not really, anways. I remember when I was very little, like 6 or whatever(I rememebr it was at least before then because le parents were not divorced yet), I tried to explain to them that I was into that kinda thing(although I also didn't know it was even called 'vore'). They didnt really respond other than the simple "oh, it's just our little kid talking silly and derpy like".I still decided not to tell anyone after anyways, cuz it seemed so weird.
Currently, with my partner...I...I just don't even know what we have going on. He knows what vore is and says he has a friend who is into it, but says he himself is definitely not and finds it kinda awkward and disgusting. So of course I haven't told him. Although we've got this weird kinda thing going on, like we're secretly testing each other to see if that's true or not, or something...or maybe I'm just being paranoid and conspiracy-theorist-like as usual. But when I do tell him, I don't think it'll be some kinda 'coming out' thing. That's just ridiculous. I'm not gonna treat it like it's some socially awkward thing like homosexuality or something. I really agree with the super long rant above by soline on that aspect. So no one. I've told no one. No one needs to know, anyways, right?

Your partner may want to know, and you may want your partner to know. I could bring up arguments to reinforce that statement of mine if you're interested.

[Darkyamato80]

I have told my small brother it I can tell him everything. and he finds it OK, as long as there remains a fantasy and I really do not eat people. My sister has see by chance
with Rau-found rummage of my PC see. and he is full with Vore things

[Skittles209]

Not very private. My brah and I always talk about it. It's funny to mention it in public because my brah says "that's life."

[StalkOBroccoli]

well I'll say it's my cousins, sister, and close friend.
all of which were surprisingly smooth to talk about.
My cousins told me of their bestiality or being a brony.
my sister is into bondage, and my friend is into furries.
so I like to think that the whole world is perverted, it's just to what extent and how!
though I wouldn't advise parading the streets with such information, I feel a little better knowing that a select few know.
there's my thoughts on the subject.

[CrimsonShadow]

Nobody. It's not really something important to my identity, just something I jerk off to when I'm bored or can't go to sleep, and not to many people (that I hang around anyways) want to hear about that stuff. Also, kinda embarrassing, especially since it has strong connections to furry and chubby fetishes, neither of which I like outside of vore.

[BlackRose]

My ex. That was fun though, she encouraged it since she was twisted herself with her bondage fetishes. So it worked out swimmingly, she even let me lay on her belly and let me listen to it <3

[Justin Bailey]

My ex (didn't mind and teased me playfully about it), my current girlfriend (became as into it as I am), my best friend (seemed weirded out and it never came up again), my counselor (who thought it was interesting and sexy), and like 8 people who I studied abroad with who all found out because I told one person. Their reaction was unanimously one of interest and wasn't negative at all.

Fetishes aren't such a taboo topic any more, depending on who you're talking to. It can be fun to talk about them with understanding and mature people.

[Imrhys]

Ahhh yes, here we go again with this thread, lol.

Only my ex wife knows, because she and I told each other just about everything sexually, because it turned out... well we used to hold contests to see who was sicker and after a few years decided we were both just too sick to even compare, lol.

As far as telling anyone else? Mmmmmm, if she wasn't going to be my 24/7 slave the rest of her life and gagged... I'm not sure if I would ever tell anyone else. I realize just how lucky I got the first time. Of course, you tell someone how much you love whipping someone into daze and unable to stand unassisted and you'll get far worse looks then vore ever will get you, lmao.

[Aickavon12]

I told I think five of my closest friends about my vore fetish. One of them I don't talk to anymore, but that's for different reasons, nothing to do with vore and she found out because like... we were discussing fetishes! Another friend because I like to tease him how he can't touch this ;3 and stuff! He's fine with it, even did a vore rp once or twice... a third friend (and my bestest ever) is fully blown into vore thanks to me XD but he's pretty open minded in general so it's all good! My fourth friend is a bit cray cray in the brain brain and is fun fun in the sun sun, so I told him about it(forgot how or why) and he's cool with it. He doesn't like vore itself, but he's okay with rping it, he just won't fap to it XD as he told me. And my fifth friend, well she's... eccentric and hard to keep up with sometimes! I honestly believed she popped out of an anime show to make my online life a bit tormentative but HEY That's what friends are for! I think she tried to indulge me once with my fetish, but she's not really into that herself... she's more into *censored* and *censored* With a chance of *censored*.

My big brother found in my google history 'sexy snake vore' from ye oldin' days but I quickly slammed the laptop shut and he kept asking me what it was and told me he'd look it up on his comp. He taunted me about it until I told him it was a fetish and there was a laugh, and I was embarrased, and then he forgot about it outright.

Moral of the story? there is no point really... everyone is different and has different situations so they shall get different results!

[Tobedumped]

I haven't told anyone and don't plan on telling anyone, including my live-in significant other. Here are my reasons why. My reasons are my reasons, and I'm not saying they need to be yours, but they are mine.

1) Vore is not part of my identity.
A lot of people make the comparison to "coming out" when it comes to announcing their fetish. I think that what's implied by this is that some of us feel like the fetish is a defining part of our lifestyle and that, like being gay or transgendered, concealing that would be concealing one's self. My unscientific guess is that there's an overlap between those who feel like they need to come out and those who have strong "fursona"s-- and that there's a feeling of "without this, you can't know me." While I'm here a lot, it's mostly just to jack off and escape (see point 3) and you can know me just fine without knowing about vore.

2) We are not, contrary to what some people seem to believe here, required to disclose our fetishes to our families. Or even our significant others.
I think that all reasonable people can agree, there's no reason why you need to tell your parents what it is that gets you off. Example; "Mom, Dad, we need to talk. I get a huge hard on whenever I think about fisting mature ebony chicks." Does that look like a conversation anyone benefits from? If you want to tell them about your fetish for other reasons, go right ahead, but really the only person who needs to know what gets you off is the person who gets you off.

If history is any suggestion, we're only a few pages away from someone claiming that those who don't disclose all of their fetishes and sexual proclivities to their significant other are liars and deceivers. Two examples though from my relationships as to why we don't need to know what gets the other one off. My current partner did once say that she wanted to know what I looked at when I looked at porn (I'm not shy about admitting that I do and neither of us have problems with that.) I decided that if she really wanted to know I'd start off tame and escalate up to "Oh, and here's a photo I pulled of a girl who looks kinda like my ex shitting herself in a diaper." Or, even more disgusting, my chat logs. I started off with a hot, busty Australian model that I liked at the time. Her response was essentially "well, what the hell do you want me to do about that?" I explained to her that I don't want her to do anything different-- she doesn't need to be bustier or more Australian... and for the love of God she should stop trying to make the cutesy porn faces because she's going to make me laugh. Once I told her there wasn't anything I wanted her to DO about any of my porn preferences, she quickly lost interest. She only cared about my preferences if I wanted to share them or if there was something she could do to incorporate them. And there's no way that I want her to even try to incorporate any of my vore fetishes.

That story ran a little long, so I'll go short on the second. She told me she likes to read erotica that includes incest. What the fuck am I supposed to do about that?! Sometimes it's better not to know.

3) Vore is my escape as much as it's my fetish.
We've all got things that stress us out, I'm no exception. I just want a couple hours a week where I can close all the doors and think about an impractical fantasy. I don't want to need to explain the mechanics of it to someone who doesn't get it, I don't want to justify how it's not as bad as it sounds, I don't want a lecture on what it says about my ethics or self esteem-- I just want to have a drink and think about cute girls, poop and carnage for a little bit. I want and need this world to be separate from that one so I can live my life and escape to my fantasies.

[Angie_Furclad]

I've mentioned it to several people in passing, we have a bit of an odd group that I hang out with so it seems normal to them ... I also DM for D&D and I include it in some of the scenarios as well.

[Pinhead2212]

I've told my wife who sometimes I think has mixed feeling but she plays along as a pred so I gotta love her for that. I've told an ex... It didn't go well. Lastly I told one of my brothers, he kinda just looked at me and said, "I don't get it but okay."

[Moon_Princess_Yue]

My gf told me and referred me to this site, when we first started dating. I do give her a lot of credit, for it's not easy to tell people about this, and even if it did make me uncomfortable at the time, she didn't want to lie, or deceive me in anyway, and shared this. After upon getting to know what she liked a lot more, I myself found that there were a few subgenres that I liked before and after I started this site. So again, kudos to her for being open to me. I have an issue with partners that don't sit down with their significant others and not share what they like sexual. My gf and I agreed that when we started to get serious, that we wouldn't hide anything from one another, and show our true selves. This had heavily paid off, because I love my gf with all my heart, I don't want her to change her fetishes, or anything about herself.

[Skittles209]

No one around me knows unless they have the brains to figure it out and so far none are smart enough. Heck they cannot even solve a riddle.

[Kharon]

In my country, where you get funny looks if you do not treat the biggest minority group with open hatred and where the general political opinion hovers between US Republicanism and the far right, I don't think revealing my vore fetish to anyone but my family and love interest could end up well. And since I don't want to tell my family and I'm currently single, the answer to this question, from me, is going to stay "Nobody" for a long time.

[Duncan-Idaho]

I'd basically need to kill myself if anyone I know found out the full extent of my fetishes.

[William]

I've been quite open about it, when asked in an appropriate setting. I'd guess the largest group was back in 1988, giving a lecture for approximately 5,000 people during a live cannibal women art slide show in Atlanta during a Dragoncon.
But you have to consider; first of all, I stand nearly seven feet tall, 300 pounds, and look like the Klingon version of Albert Einstein (without benefit of makeup; think-naturally scarier than an ogre, then multiply by ten.). Add to that enough self-confidence to freelance after being pointblank told by the authorities in my hometown that after my rebellious college activities they'd never allow it (35 years and counting as the day job: I make a LIVING at it.). Of course, you have to consider that I'm STRICTLY prey, which while somewhat mind-bending to most folks, is essentially non-threatening.
So I do have a few advantages.
Never met anyone who knew who gave a damn, negatively. And none of my ex-girlfriends ever found it to be anything but a convenient way to initiate inter-physical activity (Read: Sweaty Fun Bunny Yowza Time!) and to this day after a long separation will often greet me with a cute vorish innuendo.
At which point Milady will grab me in a possessive hug and quietly growl "MY meat!"
Your results may vary.