Right now the tendency is rather opposite from what I originally expected. But as there are not so many votes it's still unclear if this really is a thing.
From the other thread -
4ofSwords wrote:I've found a mixed bag, in my experience. Perhaps prey tend to notice pred preferences more (and thus when they differ), and vice versa? For me, finding someone who is interested in playing hard vore preds has been something of a challenge (current company notwithstanding). Even with those who do like hard vore, more often than not there's a holding back at the end - maybe because they don't want to come off as -too- sadistic?
I think this is a good point, and may play a major role - Preds, rather than preys may possibly hold back the cruel aspects. Overall, fantasies where oneself is harmed may be more accepted than fantasies where one harms somebody else, and accordingly - there's a stronger need to "nice down" the latter. ..?
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