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*flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Sun May 11, 2014 7:50 pm

I have seriously HAD IT with men who try to guilt me into RPing.

I don't fucking care how lonely you are. Or how you want something to 'pass the time'. Or that you try to shove into my face how 'no one wants to rp with you anyway...', etc. I don't know you. I'm not here to be used for your benefit. Stop trying to make me feel sorry for you.

When I say I'm not interested, I mean it. And getting uppity about it and all in-my-face and passive-aggressive once I turn you down? (Which is almost funny and shows how two-faced you are from the stuttering, timid person that originally messaged me.)

That just makes me all the more glad I never accepted from the start.
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Draegonx on Sun May 11, 2014 8:05 pm

I'm sorry you have had to deal difficult people :/
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Voraciousmoga on Sun May 11, 2014 10:27 pm

Unfortunetly people like that are always going to be around the interwebs. I cant help but notice that you have been pretty down on the portal. I'd say just don't worry about others. A lot of your blogs and updates contain subjects and issues that are really out of your control. People are annoying and will bother you. The solution is simple. Ignore them. yep thats all you have to do. ignore them and just do what you love. I know your venting your frustrations and I suppose thats ok, everyone needs to let it out. but your also letting the public know how easy it is to push your buttons. Its your public display of your own grudge... Just let it go.
I am a fan of your work and feel you have a strong place here in the community, however I keep reading your troubles and hoping someday maybe you'll have something nice and uplifting to blog about.
bottom line is, I would hate for you to leave and give up on what you enjoy because of the negative influence of others. You choose the things you wanna do and draw what you wanna draw regardless of what others say or do. ^^
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Mon May 12, 2014 12:10 am

@Draegonx - It happens far too often lately. I'd just like a break with some good experiences to speak of for a change.

@Voraciousmoga - I understand what you're saying and that's how I did try to look at it many times---to ignore and keep on doing what I'm doing. But it's awfully frustrating when these sorts of things keep happening. These aren't one-time occurrences. I really wish I had something more uplifting to talk about. And I've tried to talk about things I like in the community and been flat out ignored. It's not as easy to overlook as you make it out to be---it makes me feel alienated. I want to be a part of the community more, but it seems like it's not even worth the effort when nothing turns out positively. I've had uplifting blogs in the past and I'd love to be able to have them again, but my experiences have generally not been improving. And the more they go downhill, the more frustrated I get.

I have no intention of giving up on drawing what I like, nor did I imply that, but I have implied and outright said that I'm ready to give up on most of this community. I do not feel like I can really be a part of it, as much as I've tried. And it's gotten to the point where everything is starting to irritate me because of it. I wish it was as easy as just "letting it go", but these things have happened far too much. Every time I get my drive back to try again and keep my head up, it just comes back to hit me in the face again. It starts to wear on you. And it's been wearing on me for a long time now, as I've been here almost a year. I just don't feel like I fit in here. I'll share my art and stuff, but I'm about ready to give up on the rest of it, because it's just making me more and more pessimistic about the community in general. I still like talking with certain people among artists comments and on blogs, but I rarely get to talk to said people. They're not usuals/frequents in the general community.
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Voraciousmoga on Mon May 12, 2014 12:39 am

I see, I am truly sorry to hear that. I apologize if you ever felt I was downgrading your situation. I dont know how you truly feel nor will I pretend to. I realize you are struggling here.... so I apologize.
It may not count as much but you certainly have my support. I very much enjoy the work you produce and contribute to the community. ^^
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Mon May 12, 2014 12:47 am

@voraciousmoga - It's alright. I know you didn't mean anything in that manner and I know I've been doing a lot of bitchy/pessimistic blogs lately, so it's understandable. I used to do more uplifting ones more often and I should really get back into that habit again. I'm just not gonna try so hard from now and put my efforts where they're needed or appreciated instead of trying to bust my way into a place that I don't fit. In the end, I think that will make me happier than trying to wedge myself into the heart of the community. These people have probably known each other for years upon years already, anyway.

And that counts for a lot, thank you. I really am grateful for any and all support, even if I'm Debbie Downer lately. I appreciate it.
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby YoukaiChan on Mon May 12, 2014 9:17 am

Oh dear....sorry you had to deal with that, I previously had the same experience with someone on FA. In retrospect I should be less beta when saying no. @[email protected]
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Mon May 12, 2014 12:57 pm

@YoukaiChan - The way they word things and pressure you subtly can make it seem like it's hard to say no or word things in a nice way that they accept without contest. But I've found that firmly standing your ground brings out their true colors very quickly and saves a lot of hassle.
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Re: *flips another table and a chair with it*

Permanent Linkby Moon_Princess_Yue on Mon May 19, 2014 4:38 pm

Also a huge pet peeve of mine. Good for you for standing up for yourself.
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