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I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Tue Oct 08, 2013 11:45 pm

I have just had one of the worst days of my life.

I swear, I should never bother making friends or expressing my opinion ever.

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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby rugli on Wed Oct 09, 2013 2:12 am

What happened if you want to went you can tell me in PM
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby learner on Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:57 am

expressing opinion will always bring some people eager to go against you, whatever they think the oppoite or jut want to annoy you...

but don't give up on making friends^^ life is too boring when lived alone...
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Wed Oct 09, 2013 11:05 am

@rugli - It's alright. I don't really want to get into ALL of it. I'll just say, people I thought I was cool with, I had a disagreement with, apologized for saying things out of line--but I didn't take all the fault for the disagreement. I said they were also wrong for calling an artist 'gross' and 'unwelcome' (this was about a comic someone made that had a joke in it -- it wasn't vore-related or anything). After I thought we came to an impasse and I let things be, some twenty to thirty minutes later, they had posted on their blog on tumblr and it consisted of numerous lengthy paragraphs about why they despise me and why I'm a "foul, ignorant, bull-headed piece of shit". They went off on me as if they had been waiting for this opportunity for a long time. And from there, it only escalated. They posted this openly, so lots of people saw it, lots of people turned against me just based on the things she said---most of which were lies. Someone also got involved who gave me shit around 4 years ago with personal attacks and dramamongering, and she went so far as to post into my main fandom's tag about how I ruin everything.

And mind you, this all came after I apologized for saying two things that were out of line--namely, turning their words back on them when I saw them tearing down that other fanartist.

What's ironic about this situation, is that I feared it would arise one day if people found out I was into vore. Instead, vore isn't even involved and people I thought were nice have been hating me and silent judging me for long period of time--I don't even know how long.

I feel awful right now. A lot of people who used to respect me have been turned against me, because this person has what you could almost call a 'cult'---a large group of very tight friends. And I feel like the slander isn't even going to stop here. They want to ruin my reputation. I posted to defend myself and a few people backed me up, but I think a lot of people were just waiting to rally and smear my name.
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby nephilim on Wed Oct 09, 2013 8:18 pm

To which I say: doesn't sound like you lost much of anything (;
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby Indighost on Wed Oct 09, 2013 10:00 pm

You absolutely should bother! That's how you sort out which friends are the good ones.
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Thu Oct 10, 2013 2:24 pm

nephilim wrote:To which I say: doesn't sound like you lost much of anything (;


A lot of respect is a loss I didn't exactly handle well. But the ones that matter are the ones that didn't judge me, I suppose.

Indighost wrote:You absolutely should bother! That's how you sort out which friends are the good ones.


Well, I'm at least glad that I didn't pursue being closer friends with people who have apparently hated me for a long time but were 'afraid' to speak of their hatred because I'm a relatively big-named fan in the fandom.

learner wrote:expressing opinion will always bring some people eager to go against you, whatever they think the oppoite or jut want to annoy you...

but don't give up on making friends^^ life is too boring when lived alone...


These people have felt this burning hatred for awhile and been 'afraid' to express it. I never thought they were like that, but now that I know... well, I'll just be avoiding them at all costs and ignoring whatever kind of shit they try to stir. I still have other friends---and I don't belittle their importance to me at all. I just sometimes think maybe I shouldn't bother trying to make more since I have dealt with this two-facedness in people so many times.
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby Tushie on Thu Oct 10, 2013 6:20 pm

I don't know how comforting the opinion of a stranger is :3 but I find you fascinating Chameleonette and that's only coming from the few posts I've read of yours on the eka's forums. You put a lot of passionate into your words and into your thinking, and I'm going to be under the assumption that you apply that to real life as well. While I don't know why someone would discard anothers friendship simply over a disagreement I think your life will be richer without those types of people, and theirs will be more sour without someone as compassionate and passionate as yourself.

I hope you are doing well! ^.^ and I hope this issue is already behind you.
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Re: I feel physically ill right now.

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Thu Oct 10, 2013 7:54 pm

Tushie wrote:I don't know how comforting the opinion of a stranger is :3 but I find you fascinating Chameleonette and that's only coming from the few posts I've read of yours on the eka's forums. You put a lot of passionate into your words and into your thinking, and I'm going to be under the assumption that you apply that to real life as well. While I don't know why someone would discard anothers friendship simply over a disagreement I think your life will be richer without those types of people, and theirs will be more sour without someone as compassionate and passionate as yourself.

I hope you are doing well! ^.^ and I hope this issue is already behind you.


Well, stranger or not, I appreciate what you've had to say and I'm honored that you've enjoyed my posts here. I've only been around a few months, but... I tend to get rather loud in whatever I get involved in. Hahaha. (It wasn't always like that, mind you. I used to be very quiet, keep my opinions and things to myself, and lurk a lot.)

As for the situation, they weren't necessarily my friends, but we were getting closer to becoming friends. So I suppose it's good to know that they had really been harboring such hostility toward me for quite sometime (I thought sometimes they seemed passive-aggressive, but I attributed it to paranoia). I'm glad I know what they're truly like and what they really think of me, so I won't be bothering with them every again. If they want to keep going on hating me, they're welcome to. I had a long night to think about it and the people that are still around are the ones that matter, in the end. I feel a little stupid for having trusted these other people, but now I know they weren't worth the time or the effort and they won't be getting any more of that from me.

I am doing better, though. I wouldn't say the issue is entirely behind me yet, since it was still pretty shocking and I have lost a lot of respect from a good chunk of the fandom as a result, but... well, not to be cliche but "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger".
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