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Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Wed Oct 23, 2013 1:24 pm

I've ultimately decided to be less involved in the forums from hereon out. It tends to put me in a bad mood a lot of the time from having to deal with petty people and thoughtless comments. Not to say that there isn't a lot of good discussion going on, too, since there definitely is (if you look in the right places).

In general, though, a lot of it is just too basic of "randomness" and who can post the most times with no real content at all---and these are the most popular threads that constantly update. I see that on forums everywhere and it really doesn't interest me. And I don't feel like I mesh well with most of the common forum posters, either.

You will still be able to find me occasionally popping up in discussion threads, but I will mostly be sticking to threads such as M/F Vore in the Vore Uploads section, and The Female Prey Thread. I will remain active in those, since I feel most comfortable with posting and discussing within those threads (especially the latter).

I will still be actively role-playing, though, and update my RP thread accordingly. So I'm not disappearing---just reverting to more of a lurker now that I've had a few months taste of what to expect here. When I do art or writing, I'll still post that, as well. All in all, though, joining this community has made me somewhat more wary of the vore community than I originally was. I feel like I have to stick to certain threads just to be able to comfortably express and talk about what I like with the few active people with similar preferences to my own.

Anyway, that's about it. I still do love to talk/discuss, however, so if you'd ever like to drop me a PM, I'd be happy to respond. Same for those who are interested in role-playing, as well.

Thanks to those who have been accepting and that I've had some great discussions with. Hopefully I'll still see you guys around in those threads and other discussions. : )

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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Saftkeur on Wed Oct 23, 2013 1:36 pm

What I usually do is watch the front page to see new threads being posted, then check the "View your posts" dealio to see who's replied to stuff I posted in. Since I'm relatively picky about what I post in, it makes it a lot easier to keep away from some of the more annoying stuff!
Anyway, sticking with just a few threads seems like a good idea, I feel your pain on the other stuff.
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Wed Oct 23, 2013 4:14 pm

@Saftkeur - That's a good idea. I may start doing that, myself.

I'm pretty much done, otherwise. A lot of people are condescending, rude, and very vocal about what they don't like and complain a great deal. There's so much negativity that I feel affected by a lot of it and it really sends my mood into a downward spiral. I feel like being vocal about liking something is just encouraging people to speak up about why they don't like it/don't agree with it. And a lot of the active threads are full of bitching.
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Darius1972 on Wed Oct 23, 2013 5:04 pm

Hi there Chameleonette,

I kind of keep to myself on here with opinions about anything and have just a few people I am close with to share more with. The forums are like the wild west with anyone posting pretty much anything and a lot of conflict seems to arise because of this. I am of the same camp as my friend Saftkeur, view your posts and maybe a couple of threads to follow and that's it.
I feel where you are coming from, to post something and then have complete strangers, who know nothing about you or your feelings about what you just wrote, rip into you. I think if you pick a couple of threads that interest you and stay there, people get to know you and are potentially less inclined to serve you a big steaming plate of crap, if you know what I mean.

I do hope to see you around here in the future and if you are ever interested in RP with a male pred who has a taste for female prey.............
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby DivineDarkEvil on Thu Oct 24, 2013 12:21 am

I can certainly say without out a doubt I completely understand where you are coming from with this. Large forums such as this have always made me feel uneasy...and after having spent a good ten years on the internet and seeing for myself what people are capable of that is why I tend to be very selective about who I speak to and what I get myself involved in. I agree and echo the thoughts already suggested to you as this is what I tend to do on large sites as well. Lurk in the shadows, browse around...take the time to really see what you are getting yourself into before becoming involved. Sometimes it can really save you some heartache and or headaches and other times it does have its draw backs but its all about everything in moderation and doing what you feel is best for you at the end of the day.

I have a button on my bag that says "I'm not shy I'm just quietly examining my prey." XD And truth be told that is the best way to address situations when online. I'm sorry you had to experience such downers like this...its never fun and tends to ruin the online experience a bit for you. But so long as you have those who you know you are comfortable with you're good to go!^^

Oh and by the way, I checked into the M/F thread you told me about in the last pm....I'm SOOOO glad I looked into it!^^ -fangirls- Perhaps I'll be seeing you around that thread!
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Thu Oct 24, 2013 12:12 pm

@Darius - LMAO! Okay, your comparison of the forums to the "Wild West" made me laugh. And I agree. I'm definitely going to keep toward a smaller group of people and just dot around elsewhere. I'm tired of feeling like one of the odd people out. I thought that maybe I could encourage more people to be open and active who share this preference, but if most of them are going to be content to lurk, I might as well join them instead of throwing myself into the fray. I'm tired of dealing with the negativity. But yes, I will still be around! And if you ever want to RP, just drop me a line.

@DivineDarkEvil - I'm sorry to hear that you understand the feeling, since it's definitely not a pleasant one. I try to be an active, participating member of forums and such, but I never fit in well. I really wanted to help encourage more people with similar preferences to speak up and come out of the woodwork, but I don't think I really assisted in that very much. And I'm probably better off being one of the quieter, lurking types. Better for my sanity and mood, anyway. Haha, that sounds like a great button. XD My own personal quote that I used for a long time since high-school is "I'm not anti-social. I just dislike your company."

To be honest, I wish there was more of a safe haven to collect with people of like preferences here. I feel like most of the threads that any of them post in generally tend to be just drop-offs for pieces of art/writing and there's little to no discussion. So I go out of my way in my Female Prey Thread to encourage discussion and chatting amongst members, since I know how important it is to connect with other people, especially when you feel like an odd person out.

Glad you looked into that thread, though! I had a grand day around when I first came here, going through that entire thread. Hahaha. There's a lot of great material. And I'm sure you'll be happy to see the Titan-related things. XD
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Chameleonette on Sat Oct 26, 2013 2:15 pm

... I went to see if there was any interesting discussion going on and there is literally like 10+ random topics made by the same people. Over barely a day.

I... can't.

I give up.

I GIVE UP.
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby nephilim on Sun Oct 27, 2013 1:03 pm

*swoops in, steals Chammy, Darius and Dark and swoops back out, exiting stage left*
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Darius1972 on Sun Oct 27, 2013 4:13 pm

*swoops in, steals Chammy, Darius and Dark and swoops back out, exiting stage left*


Where are you taking us Dark Mistress?
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby nephilim on Mon Oct 28, 2013 8:20 pm

Danny will have a talk with Chammy...

Otherwise I'm spiriting us away to a nice, calm, protective enclave within Ekas (:
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Re: Unofficial Notice

Permanent Linkby Darius1972 on Mon Oct 28, 2013 8:29 pm

Danny will have a talk with Chammy...


Run Chammy!!!!!!!

Otherwise I'm spiriting us away to a nice, calm, protective enclave within Ekas (:


This sounds rather ominous. Spirited away to a protective enclave where no one can hear our screams. :evil:
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