How to do casual vore chat as unwilling prey

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How to do casual vore chat as unwilling prey

Postby Trebortron3 » Thu Jan 27, 2022 4:45 pm

Bit of an unusual one, but I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for flagging up your vore preferences in casual vore-friendly chat when you enjoy playing the role of unwilling prey?

Okay, a bit of context, and also some clarification: I'm not talking about proper vore RPs here. I'm a fairly experienced RPer (not necessarily that active anymore, but still), and I know that in any good RP, communication is key. I know I can spend a good half hour or so hashing out my specific preferences with my partner to make sure we're all on the same page before we get started. I'm also definitely not talking about inserting my vore preferences in casual settings where they'd be likely to make others uncomfortable. I'm pretty firm with separating my vore interests from my RL interests, so that wouldn't be something I'd want to do anyway, even if I didn't care about how others in the chat felt.

What I'm talking about here is specifically casual group chats where some participants are actively expressing an interest in vore and any others, even if they don't participate, are openly accepting of that. I've been in a few group chats with other vore fans, and I've recently started being more active in a chat with some old online friends who are all super sex-positive/kink-positive, even though not all of them share the vore interest. In these chats, I really enjoy casual vore teasing, and there are pred-identifying individuals who evidently enjoy doing the teasing. In such settings, I want to flag up that I enjoy and welcome those kinds of comments (people referring to me as food, threatening to eat me etc), but I really enjoy the idea of being unwilling/reluctant prey, so my preferred responses are pretending to be scared/intimidated/flustered etc. I want to signal that I enjoy it but my persona doesn't, but laying out my specific preferences feels too formal, as if I'm asking to do full RPs with them (which I'm not and don't think they want from those groups). It also weirdly feels... invasive? Overly personal? Hard to explain when it's a set of group chats all about being kinky, sharing porn and going on rants about nonsense, but I guess it kind of feels like the difference between knowing your parents have sex and having them describe their sex? I worry in particular that the people who happily tolerate vore teasing but don't take part will be weirded out as soon as I bumble in and go "Hey, I'm pretending not to be into this but I'm super hard right now please keep going".

... Obviously I'm exaggerating there, it could be said more tactfully, but hopefully you get what I mean?

Aaaaaanyway this post is getting too long. Do any of my fellow unwilling prey have ways to signal in casual settings that you enjoy being on the receiving end of vore teasing, or can any preds let me know how you'd prefer people like me to signal that we enjoy what you're currently doing while acting unwilling? Or is it just a case of "suck it up and contact the preds to explain your preferences"?
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Re: How to do casual vore chat as unwilling prey

Postby juicefox » Thu Jan 27, 2022 6:20 pm

Just do both at the same time. Put your in character response then put your personal response in brackets afterwards. eg, "*Trembles nervously* You're just kidding around right, I mean, you wouldn't actually would you? (Heck! This is super hot. I love it when you're mean)
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Re: How to do casual vore chat as unwilling prey

Postby randomthefox » Fri Jan 28, 2022 8:16 pm

Unfortunately there's really no way to properly engage with someone in a kinky-framed way without making it clear what your preferences are first. I mean obviously you can, but it's just unavoidably going to end up stepping on toes or overstepping boundaries. Vore is super niche and yet incredibly divided, everyone likes different flavors of it, you really do need to put it up in neon flashing signs what you do and don't like.

That being said: frankly it seems like most preds like unwilling prey anyway and are going to interpret In Character resistance as encouragement. I really like teasing preysluts and when they respond in a way that's obviously in character I tend to take that as a green light. If they, the person behind the keyboard, don't actually enjoy it then they'll either stop replying to me in general or make it clear OOC that they aren't enjoying it. If your concern is that someone is going to go " >;9 " at you, and if you respond by going " D= " you're worried they'll stop or go " =x oh okay sorry about that" then in all honesty you're fretting over nothing because I can't really imagine that ever happening.

Again this is my perspective as someone who enjoys teasing my edible friends as a predatory persona: if you didn't like it you wouldn't be responding to it In Character. So that means you're down with it and I can keep going. I can't speak for the people you're talking about of course, but I can't imagine they feel much different about it.
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Re: How to do casual vore chat as unwilling prey

Postby Trebortron3 » Sun Jan 30, 2022 2:15 pm

Both very good points, thank you!

randomthefox, you make a great point regarding IC replies. I hadn't really thought of it like that, but you're right, if I was uncomfortable with some attempted IC interaction I just wouldn't respond IC.
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