Willing Vs Unwilling

[Umiriko]

hello everyone was just wanted to get ur view on this subject.

in my short time in this vore community and Rping i have encouterd the delight of the difference between willing and unwill prey, as most of u have.
i was jsut wondering how u treat people different as pred, or act different as prey depending on the situation.

myself if im the pred and i find a unwilling prey i love to be a little nasty, and play with their minds alitte, which is great fun. or if they are willing i usaly go slowly having alot of fun with them along the way

pred wise when im unwilling i love to struggle and moan alot, pleeding, but as willing prey i alsmost force myself onto my pred ^_^

i was jsut wondering what u guys thought of the differnt and and stuff, myself i cant decide which one i like best, both giving such different methods of having fun ^_^

[Karbo]

Well for me a willing prey kill basically all interest in vore.
Unwilling all the way ! ( with much kicks and struggles ) ^^

[Umiriko]

yes them fighting for their life and pleeding, so nice ^_^ special from humans

[YummyBunny]

I clicked as undecided, just because I'm playing both ways right now (prey, always!), and both are much fun!!

If I HAD to choose one, though, it would be unwilling. It's more natural, for one thing. How many bunnies in nature go right up to a predator and say "open wide!"?

Plus, the fear and the struggle are SO much fun!! In real life I'm extremely fortunate to have never been in the situation that anything has been forced on me, so I don't have any qualms what-so-ever about playing at being forced in fantasy.

[Umiriko]

well yes that would proberly be the way of nature, shame it would be more interesting to find willing prey out there ^_^ or even over willing that wud make me smile

[Kisiro]

Hehe, for many years since I was a child, it always has, and always will be unwilling prey. It's the whole point to soft vore I believe. Being willing prey is more like playing your OOC self. Because of course, we all like the idea of being eaten. Even though I like it though, I like the idea of being eaten against my will. It's a "being dominated against your will", type thing.

Whenever I rp as the pred, I usaeally go for unwilling prey, but willing prey never hurts me either. Whatever the other player likes. *shrugs* Fine with me.

[gamdann]

Me too, unwilling all the way, gives a nice thing of action to the scene.

[Umiriko]

hehe i think i see a partern emerging here, anyone else change the tide? ^_^

[Chaos]

I'll be the devils advocate and say that I'm a willing man. Going down kicking and screaming is cool and all, but I like it when the prey is just as excited as the predator. I know how stupid it is for someone to look forward to being eaten and digested, but the terror kind of takes away from the experience. Hearing how the throat grasps the prey and how they are pulled down to the stomach is a lot more exciting for me then hearing the victim beg for their life. At the very least I like it if the prey gives in at the end, accepting that they are going to die.

Of coarse, this is my opinion and not many may follow it.

[Terastas]

I'm more of an endosmaphiliac (can you tell?), so I prefer to RP as/with willing prey.

[Shorty]

I'm the same as Terry mostly (save I lean more towards being swallowed) and I could go on with my likes and dislikes, but I think such things should be saved for the actual discussion before a scene between two people sort of deal. As listing a laundry list of preferences can cause people to shy away from one all together. Given I also cringe when I see such discussions, since in the end they get often carried away with one spectrum trying to bloat how their way of things is better then the other.

Truthfully though, I've been told there are as many willing as there are unwilling. Most unwilling people I know tell me they have a hard time finding unwilling partners while I hear the same from willing people. I think it's more of a prom where the male dancers are too shy to approach the female dancers really. From what people tell me mostly that there are tons of shy people from within the community who prefer to be approached then approaching others. Which in the most part causes friction in finding someone to role play with. Sometimes all you really have to do is approach someone for whom you deem interesting. Heck, I think it's ok to ask for people's interests on a message board as long as you don't make a one sentence post saying. "Females, please eat me!" Why? Cause it's not good advertising, frak only way to get people interested into one's self is spewing all your kinks and preferences into as many words as possible. If some people find that pathetic or dumb, they can just stick their own thumbs up they arseholes and sniff them.

Given however most of my characters (I only really play my prey character mostly) usually swallow people while only a few do get swallowed. My characters range from dragons down to little furs such as felines and wolves. Though my love to be on the outside of another smaller person has disapated away because of the annoying actions of some players, I sometimes get the urge to be on the top of the chain. Back in the days, I didn't mind catering to preferences, but then you always had the pushy ones who wanted you to do this or that to them all of the time. It came to the point when catering to preferences just made role playing miserable. Yea it's nice to get attention, but that fades away when the demands start coming your way. Honestly, I never liked how people judged a friendship on how many times you played with this person or that. It's more how people get to know each other through OOC means that matters.

I don't really know, but day after day I just feel wierd using predator and prey in such sentence forms really.

Anyhow, for me my interest in a character depends upon many things. First off, species does have a little to do with it. There are some species I would rather not even run into, though I don't mind talking their players. It's how the character for the most part conveys themself to me. It the character is nothing more then a sexually depraved glutton who just devours people in the same way over and over again. It's more like watching re-runs hundreds or even thousands of times. Or there could be more to the character, like a past or quirks to be discovered. For an instance, imagine meeting a dragon who seems growl at everyone else except you. Is he being overprotective (something I love mind you) of you, or does he just hate everyone else or maybe he's hungry and doesn't want to eat the one he's conversing with. Who knows. I find a character interesting when there is more to them then being some arrogant evil thing that eats anything in it's path. Same thing can be said about someone that wants to be eaten by anything that has a mouth or oriface capable of doing it. Honestly, I love interaction more then being swallowed whole, but hey it's an extra bonus if it happens in a lovely way.

For me, it's all about escaping from the reality of life and death. Honestly I dislike death and role playing it causes me discomfort because then I have to think about my own mortality. Which is something I really went into fantasy to escape from. People might find my non-fatal and friendly role plays weird, but honestly they should accept such a thing because this whole fetish we are in is as wierd as that. Thinking of someone's kinks as wierd only makes one more of hypocrite since the whole damn thing is wierd to begin with.

[AnimeLovingCorpse]

Well I myself have never wanted to be eaten, to be honest I’d probably be more of a Hard-Vore predator since I sometimes like to pretend I’m a zombie but I’d rather not get into that.

I myself like willing prey over unwilling. I mean unwilling is good and all but I think willing has its differences. When I mean willing I don’t mean ‘eat me cause it feels good’ kind of way I mean it in more of a jump in front of the bullet kind of way. I just like the idea that someone loves there friend so much that they’d give there lives up for them. Sure I know it sounds weird but I still like it. ^-^

[blackrain]

For my self I don’t do the swallowing, I let my creation do that, I like to watch. I like willing pray more then unwilling. To me if someone is giving themselves as food, they mite as well enjoy the trip down, because it’s a one way trip. Willing to me is more fun, you can do more stuff to them as their going down and they wont fight you as much. Thou there is something about the look on someone face when they realize their nothing more then food, and nothing they can do will change that. I lean more towards willing, but I still like to play with my food a little ether way. Give them a good time, it’s going to be their last.

[AnimeLovingCorpse]

You know Shorty I agree with you on a lot of things. I never role play but I have read a lot of stories where the predator in question seems to want to do nothing more then eat. I know that is more or less what Vore is but I have to admit it did get me angry a few times and I ended up cheering for the prey a few times too. Not that I had or have anything against the writers or anything I just think it would be cool to see a predator who is more merciful then others.

However I do have to disagree with the whole death thing. I mean sometimes when I’m watching the news at night listening to the politicians sprout crap about how they care about us and how crap the world is and being brainwashed by all the adverts I have to stop and ask myself is death the only freedom we have left… Man that was dark sorry o.0…

[DragoxDugles]

As prey, I think that they both can be fun. I love to struggle with oral vore. With other types it just makes more sense to be willing(like UB to get body mods and other vore that is sexual).
As pred(which I am just starting to get into), as long as they aren't overly willing(no jumping down my throat) I don't care either way. When I go pred, I just want a meal and I don't care how I get it.

[Nasonxian]

I enjoy being forced into the predator, no matter what kind of vore it is. I love the thrill of running for my life, only to be pounced and brought down for food

[BioRebel]

I usually prefer being willing, feeding myself to a being greater than me sends shivers down my spine... Though it's looking like I may have to give unwilling a try...

[Umiriko]

there is defiently somehitn about offering urself to someone else, or having them do it. like a mutual agreemet, casual and fun ^_^ willing tis be good aswell, i just cant make my mind up which i prefer, as they differ so much and are both so cool hehe

[Nasonxian]

I think probably the reason I like unwilling so much if that my first experience with vore came from an old videogame I used to play, where you were sucked into a robotic fish's belly, and had to struggle to get out. That was my first experience, and the unwillingness took root and stuck, I guess ^^

[Guest]

I usually prefer my prey to be unwilling, probably because I;m usually unwillin as prey myself. There are certain occaions when it's fun to be all willing and gung-ho for it though.