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This is kind of an embarrassing question, but I`m curious about it nonetheless: What if someone, be they your friend, family member, coworker, or whoever, happened to learn of and discover your fetishes? Whether it`s vore, size fetish, or whatever, if someone discovered it, what would you do?

I would not like that at all.

If the person is a relative, I would try to move that thought away, if its a close friend, I would try to explain why do I like vore.

My brother almost did once. I'd do now what I did then. Lie like a politician.

I have told only my closest friends and significant other about my fetish. My family doesn't know, but if they did, knowing them it may be awkward at first but they would still love me despite it. As for coworkers, Ive honestly considered telling a coworker who I consider a close friend but its best not to. If any coworkers found out, id simply find a new and honestly better job.

Anything uncomfortable like that, I just tend to refocus after the initial shock, gather my thoughts, and then be cool about it. It's a big part of my life, so why shouldn't I act like it's normal? I mean, it's not normal, but it's also really not that big a deal, and it doesn't really change who I am to the person who found out. Just another aspect they don't really need to know more about, so I'm only going to go into as much detail as they want to know. If they get grossed out, I'll remind them that they're the one who asked.

Get mad and say "hey quit snooping around" and get embarrassed at the same time. A couple years ago I would have meekly tried to explain it. Someone would have to be snooping around to find this out.

I've told a few people about it, only people I trust of course. My parents have known I had a belly fetish since I was a kid (before I even knew it was a fetish) and left me alone about it.

I had one friend who joked with me by saying "Oh don't worry, I'm just going to kinkshame you about it, to which I responded "Oh that's great. Humiliation is my other fetish!" XD

If someone i knew somehow found out about my fetish, i would most likely try to explain it away at first, before eventually just being honest with them and telling the truth.

If someone found out, I wouldn't want to be around anymore. Like, at the point I'd just wish I didn't exist.

I may have, or not, told about my fetish at one of my friend(through SMS), when I was maybe drunk(and a little depressed), or not.
His first response was ".... Ok dude" following with a "Everyone got his trip..." in response to the "weird" pictures sent to him.

The following day, when I was finally sober, we talked about it and he was perssonally okay with it.
if it's a good friend/family member he'll understand, for sure.

RealZikik wrote:If someone found out, I wouldn't want to be around anymore. Like, at the point I'd just wish I didn't exist.

I would be so embarrassed too.
I never told anyone for real, and I don't share my interests with anyone I know because that would be so awkward. I write a little and I with I could make pictures, but all I really do is read and write and see what other people are sharing. I know this is all a fantasy, but it's still scary to think if real people knew.

Id be embarrassed being caught with outright porn. I bet most of the time they wouldnt understand vore at all, unless you are jerking off while watching, but this would then fall into the outright porn category as well. I think unless you would explain it, they wouldnt perceive the things you look at. Count on the ignorance of people, they know nuthin!

I think my cousin knows, but he ignores it. I tell people that is way of dealing with stress and loneliness, I tell them is better to draw something wired then poison your body with pills and drugs.

my brother did - he thought it was short for voyeur , so win.

minakotomoka14 wrote:This is kind of an embarrassing question, but I`m curious about it nonetheless: What if someone, be they your friend, family member, coworker, or whoever, happened to learn of and discover your fetishes? Whether it`s vore, size fetish, or whatever, if someone discovered it, what would you do?

Depends. If it was a parent or sibling, I don't think they would say anything, but if they did, I would try to explain it to them politely. If it was a friend, co-worker, or anyone else, I would chew them out for getting in my business if they were stupid enough to say anything.

My close friends and significant other are well aware of my vore fetishes, and in case of the latter my many other fetishes as well. In the past I've debated telling my family, but have chosen not too mostly since I'm afraid of how they'll react.

I keep my stuff hidden under wraps pretty well, and my family stays out of my business for the most part, so it would be really hard for them to just discover it by accident. I`d never tell them, though, never. I always made sure to keep my fetishes hidden for fear that they might think I have some mental disorder or something. I don`t have a significant other, but if I did, I might tell them if I really trust them and feel comfortable about revealing such a thing to them. My friend knows about my fetishes, but he`s into vore too, so that doesn`t really count.

One thing did happen, though, when my brother kept pestering me about my latest writing project, which was a macrophilic work, so I ended up spilling the beans about my size fixation. He was pretty weirded out by it, but we kept our mouths shut and swore never to talk about it again, so it ended okay for both of us.

My work isn't really sexual, but it's plenty odd enough to raise eyebrows and frankly, if they did find it, they were being snoopy because I don't leave it out for anyone to see. If someone DID find out though.... I'd probably be really embarassed, especially family, they are a bit more judgemental. Then again so is my IRL friend... so darn, that's a hard one, they are equally bad~

This question inspired me to make an account after years of lurking.

For pretty much as long as I can remember, I've had a fascination with vore, but I've kept it well hidden and figured I'd likely take it as a secret to my grave. Recently, I befriended an ERP partner and we've gotten along extremely well for six months of slowly opening up to each other, and they confided in me, in shame, they have a fetish with a fatal outcome. To ease his fears that I'd find them too weird or some such, I revealed my liking for vore.

Turns out we have far more in common than we realized, down to specific tastes and compatible role preferences.

I don't advise telling everyone you meet, but sometimes the universe turns in such a way to make things change for the better.