What if Someone Discovered Your Vore Fetish?

[Brazzel]

I'd be a little weirded out if my family knew just because who wants to know about their family's kinks?

Most of my friends know and nobody cares because literally who has time for that? My SO knows and it's the best thing every because even though it isn't their niche, they love to use it to tease me which I 10/10 recommend.

I don't really try to explain it to people. It's more like a, "Yeah, it's pretty weird but it's nothing like my rubber duck fetish." Usually defers the question.

[minakotomoka14]

I'd be a little weirded out if my family knew just because who wants to know about their family's kinks?

Most of my friends know and nobody cares because literally who has time for that? My SO knows and it's the best thing every because even though it isn't their niche, they love to use it to tease me which I 10/10 recommend.

I don't really try to explain it to people. It's more like a, "Yeah, it's pretty weird but it's nothing like my rubber duck fetish." Usually defers the question.

Yeah, I second that. Family stuff is very personal, so if they were to find out about something like that, who knows what they would think? I don`t think they`d even want to know. Like, I have no desire to learn about my parents` dildo collection or anything. It`s something that you keep to yourself.

Oh, and rubber duck fetish. That`s funny, hehe.

[DragonPrey3200]

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[Teodor435]

It depends on their reaction, honestly if they started to try to kink shame me and tell me what I like is gross or whatever I think I'd feel a little hurt and what not but if they're honestly judging me that hard then they're not someone I need in my life. I've actually told quite a couple of the women I've been with that I enjoy things like being shrunken down and eaten, most of them think it's weird but I have the advantage of being a good looking guy so they're not too quick to jump to "ew weirdo" and usually just "that's a weird kink, I dont know if I can really get into that" some of them have played along a bit. If someone was interested and asked genuine questions I would put my best charming face on and try to politely explain to them y'know not going too kinky and just outright being like "IM A GUTSLUT!" But more like telling them how it links to other traits of domination and submission and how it can be rather romantic sometimes, reassuring them that it's just a fantasy and having someone painfully devour me would be very scary actually.

[klonoa723]

Me best friend and my bro know about it. They don't really care much.
Now, if my other friends were to know about it, I guess they would either not care too or sometimes make fun of me.
My mom would totally not care, she already think I'm pretty crazy without knowing about this XD
If me dad were to know... I think I'd be pretty much dead.

[go47]

Hehe. It depends entirely on the situation. Like I was fine saying it as a joke to my Warships TS buddies because I figured out 2 of them were active here. But IRL. I think Vore has come up randomly like 4-5 times. All of them were the sudden "Oh shit did I slip something" followed by me just realizing that. One wanted to blurt it out because some emo guy trashed it on his youtube video. One had Asberger's and browses 4Chan and wanted everyone to know how weird CV is. One was this weird guy with Buck teeth that was with my sister's friend group who I was chaperoning at a local mini con and had shown up to the con in a "Stained" furrsuit and made sure I knew what Vore was as a way of showing how crazy the con he attended the night before was as a way of one upping how Vanilla I looked. But I can't even dream what would happen if someone stumbled onto my computer and found my Vore stuff and confronted me with it. Would probably die on the spot.

[Kitsouille]

No matter what I may think I'd do or how hard I try to prepare a protocol, I'd probably not be able to carry it out and wish to disappear. There a lot of things I hide from people, even normal stuff, most of my coworkers and my parents don't know I'm a geek because I don't want to get a lecture about immaturity (among other reasons).

Porn is something you wanna hide by default, I mean, it's not a taboo but most people try to hide it and not be seen having fun by themselves. Fetishes are even more intimate and vore is pretty fucked up in itself. Not only I would save myself from shame but I'd save a lot of trouble and explaining to do. Beside breaking down and hiding my face I would try to say it's a roleplay pretend thing that tingles me and isn't hurting anyone.

[HonestTree]

I would feel ashamed honestly, my family and employers do not understand my interests
only my trusted friend knows about it but thats because they also like vore.

[minakotomoka14]

This topic is also why I`ve never been to places like Size Con. Although I`d like to go someday within my lifetime, I don`t know how I`d do it. I mean, how would I explain something like that? Especially when I get asked what I went to NYC for. Oh, it`s just a convention about some weird-ass fetish I have that you don`t know about. Perfectly normal.

[Pluie]

"holly shit, someone hacked my computer with weirds shits"

[LadySenka]

I'd be absolutely mortified if someone were to discover this about me - while I can joke with friends about more 'normal' kinks such as BDSM, fantasy fetishes to me are on a whole different level, and from what I've seen they tend to be more subject to knee-jerk reactions of "ew, that's just wrong!" from others.

Vore in particular is a particularly awkward subject for me as well. People who know me IRL are aware that I have a massive fear of being eaten (hence why I don't RP as prey), so there'd likely be a lot of confusion if anyone were to find out that I visited sites like Eka's. I'd probably have to cobble together some vague excuse and then rapidly try to change the subject.

[New]

I'm not trying to let anyone discover it, but it's part of me and my personality. Everyone has their skeletons in the closet, so while I don't try to tell anyone, I encourage that everyone just be respectful of others' fetishes when such a conversation comes up.

If someone found out? Well...if it were one of my friends, I'm sure they'd shrug it off, maybe tease me about it now and then, maybe never mention it again. That's what friends do. Family? Probably never mention it again; it's something to get off your chest if you feel you have to, and while it may be awkward, they should be understanding, and then you'd probably not bring it up anymore unless it proved necessary.

Anyone else? Well...it all depends on what kind of person they are, doesn't it?

[Jayezox]

My work isn't really sexual, but it's plenty odd enough to raise eyebrows and frankly, if they did find it, they were being snoopy because I don't leave it out for anyone to see. If someone DID find out though.... I'd probably be really embarassed, especially family, they are a bit more judgemental. Then again so is my IRL friend... so darn, that's a hard one, they are equally bad~

Now that you mention it I don't get why strange websites known for fetishes call the non-pornographic versions "safe for work" versions (FurAffinity for example). They should just be called "safe" versions because I wouldn't browse weird stuff at work whether it's technically pornographic or not.

[mugel90]

My friend was snooping around my computer one time and found my history. It was an anal vore video that had instant digestion at the end. Curiosity and the cat I believe it was called. I walked out of my room one day, and he walks up to me with a smirk and goes "by the way, curiosity did indeed kill the cat." I thought about it for a moment, then I froze in fear. He even threw the video back on, but I acted like I had no idea what I was seeing. He then showed another friend of ours, and they both just started laughing. I left the room, acting like I didn't want to see the video the first time, but the second time, I watched and acted like I had no idea wtf I just saw. I could tell they didn't buy it, but at the same time, at least they didn't think any differently of me because of it, and it hasn't been brought up since. Was a horrible day I'll say that. But it almost seems like they've both forgotten about it at this point. Neither of them have seen me doing anything vore related since, and I intend to keep it that way through regular history cleaning, and cookie cleaning.

[Hereforvore]

Well for me I've been working hard to keep it secret, it's all contained on my laptop or iPad and I don't let anyone else use them. However, it wouldn't surprise me if one day I went to show someone a video on my iPad and it did that glitch where it shows a previous browser page for a few seconds. That could really screw me over, but it hasn't happened yet.

Until it gets found out, I'll keep hoping it never will. If it does...my family would be weird out and concerned, but I doubt they would hate me for it. Friends would definitely think I was the weirdest person they know, but would probably keep it a secret. Probably.

Let's hope I never have to find out.

[ArcaneSigil]

For me... it'd depend on the person. If my mother discovered it, I'd try and shrug it off as a "I stumbled on this page when looking for a picture on google." kinda deal.

If my girlfriend, if I manage to get one in the future, discovered it, I'm not sure what I'd do. Maybe try and convert her to it, maybe just let her know it's just a harmless fetish. It's fun to imagine, but she's what turns my gears, so to speak.

If I had a sibling and they discovered it, if it was my older sibling, I'd do their chores for a MONTH if they kept their mouth shut. If it was my younger sibling... bribery. I'll buy them a video game or something, as long as they keep their trap shut. As I don't have siblings, I don't have to worry about that.

One of my cousins already knows about it and is slowly converting into a prey rp-er.

Otherwise, I'm not entirely sure what I'd do. Maybe panic, maybe be cool with it, maybe try and convert them? I dunno.

[TootCore]

It all depends on which person finds out about it.

If someone's understanding about it, good.
If they're not, fuck 'em.

Everyone's got their weird kinks and anything's pretty much okay as long as it doesn't harm anyone else physically or mentally.

Be a bitch about someone's fetish ? Too bad, you go to the asshole box.

[MeTheMe]

Fact, a few people already know, and I don't think the rest of my friends would care all that much if they did. I even talk openly about it a lot with one friend who's diffidently not into it, but always very curious about other people's fetishes. I don't really make friends with people I don't think I could open up to about weird shit. Most might be weirded out a little, but I don't think that's all that weird, it's a strange fetish and that's an understandable reaction, but I don't think they'd judge me for it. I'm not embarrassed, but your fetishes aren't something that just comes up in regular conversation. ;p

[Rendezvore]

Doesn't concern me because half my friends and family already know. I'm expressive and giddy around vore when it occasionally shows up in movies and games. "Mmm, delicious!" or "Ooo, that's one sexy bug! Omnomnom!" and then we all laugh. It's no different when one of them sees a TV show character they like and expresses wishing to bang them in their own fantasies.

But I also don't make or keep friends or family who are judgmental assholes of my art or interests. People like that will be judgmental about everything no matter what, so it really wasn't difficult to purge the jerks from our life after we finally got sick of their lies and manipulation.

Here's a couple of my answers from other topics like this:

viewtopic.php?f=18&t=45353#p2421367

viewtopic.php?f=18&t=47409#p2510181

[fixated1]

Well, looks like it's suicide again for me.

I'm kidding. I'd probably say something along the lines of, "yeah, I'm into a lot of weird shit. What about it?"

Going aggressive is an easier path through the embarrassment in my opinion. Own it and reverse kink shame them for being so vanilla if they're really into making a big deal out of it. The only type of person that would hold it against you is someone that's a prude (which is easy to poke back), someone that wants to tease (which calling them a prude will shut them up if you do it right), or someone that doesn't like you to begin with. I'd just stop being around the third type.

I might also berate them for looking through my stuff. You'd have to dig through my pc for it. In general, I'd try to make them feel uncomfortable enough with their own actions that they wouldn't pursue it again.