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What's your sexual orientation

Straight
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Gay
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Lesbian
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Bisexual
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Asexual
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Ghrelin » Thu Feb 22, 2018 2:28 pm

sinsnail wrote:'what's the difference between people who are bi-curious and heteroflexible'.

as i understand it, curiosity is more like "questioning"
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby RediQ » Thu Feb 22, 2018 5:51 pm

Avereth wrote:I have noticed there may be an increased rate of vore interest in asexuals, heck my roommate is one and likes vore, and I've spoken to a good number more in the same boat, but it's hard to know if it's just coincidence or not.


This could be totally off, but just for the sake of trying to figure things out: Maybe ace people are more likely to gravitate towards alternative fetish content than average, because most sexual content in the regular world is oriented towards straight folks and straight sex and/or attraction to physical bodies in general?

Like, if the forms of sex appeal we encounter normally do nothing for us, but we still have a libido or otherwise need something arousing or intimate, we've gotta seek out something that does work... maybe subconsciously or discovering it on accident, even. And with the internet, that's gonna lead people to "weird" stuff pretty quickly, whether it winds up being vore or something else.

Again, idk if that's the real reason, and obviously it won't be true for every asexual person, but it's my best guess.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby JackSpades » Thu Feb 22, 2018 5:56 pm

Uh, it's quite complex with me... I'm asexual, but have romantic feelings for females and some homoerotic tendencies...
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Lightness0001 » Thu Feb 22, 2018 6:18 pm

Yeah to just throw in my own 2 cents: I'm asexual and have primarily identified with that. No sexual attraction to others and the only thing that gets me off is vore in itself. The actual subjects within said vore doesn't usually matter. Romantic attraction-wise, I've noticed myself leaning rather heavily gay, so whenever there's some super soft, sweet, cuddly vore, I prefer it to be M/M (and I enjoy writing it too)!
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby again__again » Thu Feb 22, 2018 7:12 pm

not to pretend i'm an expert or even have any formal education in psychology, but as an armchair theorist, i think a possible explanation for the large proportion of asexuals in the community, may be that people who grew up sexually interested in vore, depending on the degree of interest, may have been that much LESS interested in traditional sex. like, in my experience, anyway, i'm pretty sure i knew i was interested in vore at a younger age than i was thinking about sex, and at that point i think part of my brain was like "yeah, this sex thing seems OKAY, but we already have vore, so why bother?"

of course that brings into question all sorts of things about the development of sexuality and paraphilia and thats seven hundred other kettles of fish. but just my two cents.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby dragonjerky » Thu Feb 22, 2018 8:51 pm

Straight male. I'm not asexual but I most definitely have a stronger reaction to vore content than "standard" porn. I also tend to go though long periods without even thinking about sex or female companionship. Vore scenarios, though... those are always on my mind...
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Oniric » Fri Feb 23, 2018 12:52 am

Eznam wrote:
Oniric wrote:It's funny that I always forget that those "flexible" terms exist since that's probably what' best describes me (homoflexible, I guess). I'm attracted to males 99% of the time, but since I'm not oppossed to the idea of finding women (or other genders) attractive sometimes I've described myself as bi or pan. I could totally see myself having sex with a girl under some bizarre circumstance, even if I'm not usually aroused by the female body. But in the end I decided it's just easier for everybody if I just say I'm gay (since he HAVE to label ourselves and stuff) since that's true most of the time.

But hey, I once jacked off to lesbian porn so I guess I can't be totally gay, right? xD

Wouldn't that just be homosexual/biromantic? Maybe I don't understand the romantic aspect of that statement.

Oh, I wasn't even taking romance into the equation, I was just thinking of sexual attraction. Sexuality is an spectrum, that's why I think labels are useful to describe ourselves but they shouldn't limit us. I'm very gay in both the romantic and the sexual axes, I just don't think I'm at the extreme end of that spectrum. Theoretically speaking, at least. I've never done anything sexual (or romantic) with a woman.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Eznam » Fri Feb 23, 2018 12:54 am

Oniric wrote:
Eznam wrote:
Oniric wrote:It's funny that I always forget that those "flexible" terms exist since that's probably what' best describes me (homoflexible, I guess). I'm attracted to males 99% of the time, but since I'm not oppossed to the idea of finding women (or other genders) attractive sometimes I've described myself as bi or pan. I could totally see myself having sex with a girl under some bizarre circumstance, even if I'm not usually aroused by the female body. But in the end I decided it's just easier for everybody if I just say I'm gay (since he HAVE to label ourselves and stuff) since that's true most of the time.

But hey, I once jacked off to lesbian porn so I guess I can't be totally gay, right? xD

Wouldn't that just be homosexual/biromantic? Maybe I don't understand the romantic aspect of that statement.

Oh, I wasn't even taking romance into the equation, I was just thinking of sexual attraction. Sexuality is an spectrum, that's why I think labels are useful to describe ourselves but they shouldn't limit us. I'm very gay in both the romantic and the sexual axes, I just don't think I'm at the extreme end of that spectrum. Theoretically speaking, at least. I've never done anything sexual (or romantic) with a woman.

But if you can't get hard to girls then you're not sexually attracted to girls so technically any attraction you have to them would be romantic.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Oniric » Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:02 am

Eznam wrote:But if you can't get hard to girls then you're not sexually attracted to girls so technically any attraction you have to them would be romantic.

Every person is different. Just because I'm not aroused by most women doesn't mean it could never happen. Just like I'm not attracted to every single man in existence just because they're male.

Like I said, I've jacked off to lesbian porn, and I'm pretty sure I wasn't romantically attracted to any of the actresses. I CAN find girls hot, it's just incredibly uncommon.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Delet932b4sk » Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:05 am

Male, straight, but willing to experiment if I ever got the chance, I suppose. Haven't been touched in 7 years so maybe my preferences have changed, who knows.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Ghrelin » Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:12 am

Eznam wrote:But if you can't get hard to girls then you're not sexually attracted to girls so technically any attraction you have to them would be romantic.

sexual attraction, romantic attraction, and sexual activity can all exist by themselves; one isn't required for the other.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Vae » Fri Feb 23, 2018 7:49 pm

Oh shit! Ace represent!\
Not used to Asexuality being so widespread, but I suppose this is the community I should've expected. Y'all are my people.

Sexual orientation (gray) asexual. Fetish stuff is 98% of my attraction. person + person sex is meh, but it doesnt disgust me. still do it occasionally if the mood is right.

Romantics: Panromantic, heavily leaning Lesbian (could be exposure bias, because most guys i meet have been scum.)



Does any of this translate to vore preferences? who knows. lemme throw those out as well for anybody who's keeping tally

Vore pref: Pred/Prey switch, Leaning solidly Pred until a better one comes to take my place. Any gender partner is fine, but (see "Romantics:) Oral vore > Female specific (UB &/or BV) > AV > male specifc. Digesiton/absorbtion is preffered.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Eznam » Fri Feb 23, 2018 7:55 pm

Vae wrote:Oh shit! Ace represent!\
Not used to Asexuality being so widespread, but I suppose this is the community I should've expected. Y'all are my people.

Sexual orientation (gray) asexual. Fetish stuff is 98% of my attraction. person + person sex is meh, but it doesnt disgust me. still do it occasionally if the mood is right.

Romantics: Panromantic, heavily leaning Lesbian (could be exposure bias, because most guys i meet have been scum.)



Does any of this translate to vore preferences? who knows. lemme throw those out as well for anybody who's keeping tally

Vore pref: Pred/Prey switch, Leaning solidly Pred until a better one comes to take my place. Any gender partner is fine, but (see "Romantics:) Oral vore > Female specific (UB &/or BV) > AV > male specifc. Digesiton/absorbtion is preffered.

We look more into what's appealing rather than situational preferences. Because honestly pred and prey is really just a question of dominant or submissive that applies to everything about a person.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Cowrie » Fri Feb 23, 2018 8:22 pm

Eznam wrote:Because honestly pred and prey is really just a question of dominant or submissive that applies to everything about a person.


That is a huge overgeneralization. There's plenty of people like me for whom dominance/submissiveness is a completely separate issue than being predator or prey. The mere idea of being in a prey position makes me see red and want to do violent things to people, but so long as I'm predator, I can quite happily play a submissive role, either towards a third party or a dominant prey.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Eznam » Sat Feb 24, 2018 4:01 am

jaggedjagd wrote:
Eznam wrote:We look more into what's appealing rather than situational preferences. Because honestly pred and prey is really just a question of dominant or submissive that applies to everything about a person.

Not really sure I can follow your statement, but I am very sure that Dom/Sub tendencies can be absolutely situational. There may be people who have been strict sub their entire life but one day find a partner that helps them discover their hidden dom side. And preference for being pred/prey is not necessarily tied directly to dom/sub preference. Dominant prey exists just as submissive pred exists.

Just because a pred isn't necessarily dominant and a prey isn't necessarily submissive doesn't mean that the pred and prey thing isn't purely about dominance and submission.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Ghrelin » Sat Feb 24, 2018 4:07 am

Eznam wrote:Just because a pred isn't necessarily dominant and a prey isn't necessarily submissive doesn't mean that the pred and prey thing isn't purely about dominance and submission.

ok... but it's not. dom/sub mentality isn't required for vore at all, and even people who are into both may switch roles for one but not the other.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby Cowrie » Sat Feb 24, 2018 10:51 am

sinsnail wrote:
Erastus wrote:ok... but it's not. dom/sub mentality isn't required for vore at all, and even people who are into both may switch roles for one but not the other.


Yeah, I gotta agree with this. While most of the time prey is sub, and pred is dom (and that's just fine), it's not exactly the same. For example, pred characters can be submissive to their prey or their observer especially when the vore is unwilling or forced onto the pred. Just because a pred eats doesn't mean they're in control or in the position of power unlike in say, BDSM, where the dom is always dominant and is the one calling the shots/orchestrating the mind games/carrying out forceful actions onto the submissive. As others have mentioned a sub can switch between a prey and pred role but still be submissive, the same can be true for a dom.

Sometimes sub/dom features are just completely absent from vore, especially when the prey is ambiguous or doesn't matter in a cyclical structure of nature or survival or the fittest sort of way and it's just the pred eating because they gotta rather than as a flaunting of power/control.


Yes, exactly! I can swing dom, sub, or leave such elements out completely, but I'm always predator.
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Re: What's your sexual orientation?

Postby pendingdelete5vf735 » Sat Feb 24, 2018 2:40 pm

Bisexual, Sub, ^^ :gulp: woot woot
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