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[Cowrie]

Female, ace, only interested in size difference if the bigger of the two characters is prey. Don't care what gender prey is, predator must be female, herm or some variant thereof.

[ShadesofBlack]

Heya, and awesome post!

I'm a transgender woman, bi, with a pretty strong leaning towards women and gender-non-conforming and non-binary folks.

When it comes to vore and some other similarly flavored fantasy kinks, I'm into a lot of different types and situations, but probably my favorite role to put myself in is that of the non-malevolent predator. I like accidental vore, or "too carried away" vore, or safe and tender (or risky but willing) endo quite a bit too. I am strongly drawn towards "hammerspace" same-size vore, but I also enjoy size difference and sometimes bulges.

Personally, I'm a very sexually minded person, and for me the boundaries of "sexual/not" aren't usually well defined except for where they need to be for someone else's comfort or boundaries when it comes to those fantasies, and somewhat with adult friendships. By contrast, I know some folks who are on several points in the ace spectrum, including my wife on the edge of it.

It's hard for someone else besides you to accurately label or define you, so I offer this as my thoughts: you might be somewhat asexual in general, since you don't find the ideas of "conventional" or possible sexual situations attractive with anyone. That doesn't necessarily mean nothing can turn you on though. And/or it might just be that you have a particular fetish that - as a total fetish - NEEDS to be present for you to be aroused. If within the bounds of that fetish being present, you find that you are only turned on by the presence of or thoughts of women and/or femmes, it's really likely that you're also lesbian, since you have at least a partial capacity to feel sexual desire or pleasure but only involving other women.

I know people who consider themselves completely ace, and still have a fetish enjoyment nonsexually of certain fantasies with certain types of people, while it's possible it could just be that the fetish is a must for your sapphic attraction to work. If you can enjoy the fetish only involving women, but can't enjoy the idea of/actual sex with anyone at all, it's very possible you could be still mostly asexual and also lesbian. Finally if you feel like you could form a romantic or partner relationship with anyone, but can only enjoy the fetish and sexual thoughts with women, it's possible you are panromantic on top of your sexuality. Human identity and sexuality is really complicated, but as long as the labels are helping you understand yourself and not putting you in a box, they can be useful. Good luck!

[Siuddithsi]

I’m a straight female “I’m not really sure if I’m straight because I don’t even like sex” but I’m fascinated with giantess women or being shrunk around normal size women and being eaten by them , I especially like being eaten by older women like the mature type , so i’m asking this to understand my sexuality a bit more.

Male, 95% straight. But if you're looking to understand your sexuality, maybe you're wondering "How do I know?"

1. I was attracted to the opposite gender in kindergarten. I had no knowledge of sex whatsoever. I just thought they looked pretty, and that's what I saw all around (media, family relations, other overwhelming images of heterosexual relations.
2. Based on a psych concept I saw in college, assigning percentages to sexual preference, the 5% bi is based on an attraction to Trans, specifically, the ones that look like supermodels, with a dick. I have no idea why the combination is attractive, but the more a trans resembles a beautiful woman, the greater the attraction. The bare minimum is thin, androgynous, no body hair, heavy makeup and a corset to give a narrower waist.

I got into vore late in life, as I've noticed many realize their fetish at a young age. As I read vore websites (being exposed to the volumes of porn and fetish on the new "internet") the erotic stories made me associate vore with oral sex, which I enjoy, giving cunnilingus and analingus and getting fellatio. I already had a lipstick fetish, for women with thickly applied bright red lipstick, so the thought of licking a woman's entire body in my mouth at once, wasn't a far stretch.

I RP/fantasize as a male, female or monster (like an insectoid or a tentacled hentai horror). I don't think those are so much as desire to "be" those things, as to be anything but me. And I'm usually the pred, only 2 RPs as prey. However pred/prey relates to sexuality. Maybe dominance/submission?

Before assigning a label like "asexual", think of your likes and reactions. It's how I realized and became comfortable in my sexuality. I thought, "If I was gay, this is probably what I'd do:" and I imagined sex acts with guys. One or two were ok, most were "meh" and some were "ew". Not the lust or crush response I've had to women. Does anything/anyone get you exited where it's hard to think about anything but that person, and the thought of them is elating? Like the thoughts of giantesses. Maybe not asexual. Were there any negative influences based on sexuality? Like: "Sex is Dirty (and/or sinful)" "Good girls don't do that" Might be related to it.

So my support/empathy on your journey. None of what I've said is intended as negative or judgmental, my apology if that was unclear. Hope it helps.

[157and493]

I am male, and when it comes to my sexuality I am 110% heterosexual.
I am only attracted to the predators in vore so I will only like them if they are female, however I also like the prey to be male because I am really into femdom.

On an unrelated note, I never realized how many women who are into vore are also either asexual or lesbians. I guess it might be pretty difficult for me to find a woman who shares this fetish and is also willing to date me.

[Merodi]

I'm NB, AFAB, biromantic and asexual and prefer girls IRL, but for vore, I exclusively like male preds. Both masculine and feminine, but male preds nonetheless. I'm less picky when it comes to prey, but I prefer male prey for romantic vore cause I don't really do much straight stuff.

[Zangoose]

Cis male, Bi with high male lean in general. When it comes to same-size and shrunken/tiny prey, I'm fine with any gender pred, but giantesses have always discomforted me for some reason. Really wish I knew why, but right now, there's no real reason.

But god damn, giant men are my weakness. I'm more of a same-size fan, but being eaten by a giant man sounds like a dream.

And I generally like male prey the most for this reason. I like imagining myself in the prey's shoes, so the prey being the same gender as me helps make scenarios more enjoyable.

[NyaatoShiroi]

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[Flatheaddog]

Male here, definitely bi and without a preference really. I find a lot more female preds but I have a big sweet tooth for males though. I prefer same size and fatal vore as well.

[hexall90]

It always surprises me the amount of asexual folks in here, though considering the overwhelming "psychological" component of the fetish compared to others, it may not be that surprising.

If it helps, I want to point out the difference between fetish and kink:

A fetish is not sexual in nature by itself. It is rather a psychological need, that provides a psychological reward, in the form of satisfaction, excitement, comfort, et cetera; it does not necessarily lead to even imply sexual pleasure. The word itself arises from the religious world, where it was used to define objects of worship. In a way, a fetish, even in its modern meaning, is the worship of an idea, or a concept, or an object.
As such, a fetish is somewhat distinct from the sexuality of an individual, since it does not take root in it necessarily, which is why many fetishists experience a "dilatation" of their sexual preferences when confronted with situations that trigger their fetish (for example, straight males enjoying the idea of being devoured by a male pred, even if they would never have sex with a guy.)

A kink instead is a declension's of one's own sexuality. It is a particular way to experience sexual pleasure. Of course, the most important sex organ is the brain, but nonetheless, a kink is primarily a physical, sensory, and emotional experience, without necessarily evoking any kind of sensation or psychological state beyond arousal and sexual pleasure. Someone with just a kink may even feel repulsed by the material they used, once they obtained their climax, since without the sexual rush the triggering event (may it be images, text, imagination, etc.) is processed by the mind as any other input (and thus the classical post-fap shame.)

A fetish may trigger a kink, and viceversa, but they are not necessarily causally related. Let me make an example using foot fetishism, because of the relative ease of satisfaction (especially compared to vore): A pure foot fetishist may be satisfied purely by contact with feet, their experience may not even involve touching feet directly, let alone letting them near erogenous areas; someone with a "pure" foot kink instead will generally or even exclusively use feet as a way to stimulate themselves.
And now you know the why of all those stories you can read of women that had men paying them hundreds of dollars to touch their feet for a few minutes and nothing more, and why 99% of foot porn consists of people forcefully rubbing themselves against a foot like it is going out of style.

Hopefully I helped someone clear up their mind. Otherwise, I hope it wasn't too boring to read, at least.

[JustSomePrey]

Probably one of the most boring types of people on here. Straight male prey completely and solely into biologically female preds, same size or giantess doesn't matter, so long as the vore is female specific. Only thing that makes me different from most on here is that I'm also solely into non fatal vore.

[Dekkard2]

Straight cis male, and I'm into giantess, mini-giantess (amazon?), F/f, F/m. I used to anything that had women in it: f/f, f/m, m/f, ?/f mythical and reptilian creatures swallowing women whole; then I was only into f/f for the longest time until I became more comfortable with my sexuality and masculinity, now I'm sort of back to where I was when I initially got into vore.

[Flatheaddog]

Probably one of the most boring types of people on here. Straight male prey completely and solely into biologically female preds, same size or giantess doesn't matter, so long as the vore is female specific. Only thing that makes me different from most on here is that I'm also solely into non fatal vore.

Hey man, don't be ashamed of bei f straight, male or prey. It's not boring. Everyone here is tasty and that includes you!