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I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby LoneliestWolf » Tue May 19, 2020 10:46 am

Something that has been a part of me my whole life and I grew up with thinking was unique to me and something that I once found joy from after finding out that others share these feelings is now morphing into something that I'm starting to find repulsive. I'm having a hard time trying to elaborate any further at the moment but I just wanna know if anyone else has or has been known to go through these same or similar feelings and if so they would like to share?

It's probably just another phase and I'll get over it eventually, as I have experienced these same feelings numerous times in the past. I'm just really distraught right now...
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby someguy94 » Tue May 19, 2020 11:02 am

Times like that just take some time away from it and look after yourself. It's perfectly okay to have a fetish and also possible to have relationships and everything else. It's also okay to not like certain aspects of the fetish or community, but the important thing is you're happy with yourself and what you like.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby MianQ » Tue May 19, 2020 11:07 am

Take some time away from all and everything sexual ( porn, sexual images) and try not to think about sexual stuff for awhile. After you've done that for like a month; reflect and ponder if you'd come back or if you still find feelings for it.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby JohnnyB » Tue May 19, 2020 11:56 am

Yes, I've actually been dealing with this quite a lot myself as of late.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby goldendog777 » Tue May 19, 2020 11:56 am

I've...had a similar experience. I remember vore being one of my *sole* kinks for years. There were some limits. I was never into furries. For the most part, I loved this kind of content though. About 3 years ago, I just noticed I...didn't enjoy the fetish as much anymore. I either felt bored, uncomfortable, or just "blah" when seeing it. Then I basically took an extended break from the material. I came back, with a more thorough blacklist. I can enjoy it, but it's definitely not my primary "kink" anymore. I'm also *way* more picky about what I'll browse through.

Part of this was because...I just felt *a lot* of internalized guilt and shame surrounding this. I told two close sex positive friends about my interest in vore. I was in tears when I told them. It felt like a weight was lifted when they told me "as long as it's all fiction and involves no real people, you're not a monster, you're not hurting anyone, and it may be a little quirky, but we don't think differently of you." Heck, in the past I didn't even tell *romantic* partners I was into this for fear of judgement.

I am glad this site and DA taught me I'm not the *only* one. I'm glad this site cultivated a "fantasy only, no real people, have fun and no one gets hurt" environment to explore this kind of kink in drawings and stories. I'm...back here, but it's with a really different perspective and set of feelings.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby TW » Tue May 19, 2020 1:08 pm

Fetishes will wane and flow, just like your other interests. I have stepped away from vore for a time, yet there are still attractions for me. Maybe not the same level as before for certain things and maybe moreso for others. Your life and changes that occur in it, will define how you feel about things. If you don't like vore anymore, that's ok. If you leave and return, that is ok too. It's good you recognize how you feel and take actions on your feelings.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby Ryan-Drakel » Tue May 19, 2020 4:07 pm

That, my friend, is called "Burnout."
Too much of a good thing is a very fatal poison. And the most effective....

If you're feeling this way, then do not blame yourself, do not blame anything, just say 'guess that's life.'

Step away for a while and come back. Ifthe feeling of disgust is still there... then it is understandable. Best thing to do is move on.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby linthia » Tue May 19, 2020 4:37 pm

Don't get if you find it repulsive in a way it's boring or that you're feeling that's disgusting in some ways... Had moments when I thought the second thing, I know that fetish is kinda strange, but well, that's a fetish, a fetish is not really what I'd call something that everybody likes, and it can sometimes be really strange, as I like vore in a fatal way with digestion etc... it can be really disgusting and weird for most people, and sometimes I think about it and ask to myself why the fuck I love that, and.. I don't know really why, I just like it. I tried maybe two times to stop looking for vore stuff, it lasted 3 days until I did it again, and during those days I still had thoughts about it, it's just inside you, part of you I think, you can't really stop liking it, you can stop maybe drawing vore art, writing stories etc... but liking it ? That'd be difficult imo. Talked about it with friends etc... open minded people, they didn't really like it but didn't tell anything offensive about me liking that, and nothing has changed between us in years, so I don't really think about thinking that I should stop liking this.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby nutritious » Tue May 19, 2020 5:31 pm

LoneliestWolf wrote:Something that has been a part of me my whole life and I grew up with thinking was unique to me and something that I once found joy from after finding out that others share these feelings is now morphing into something that I'm starting to find repulsive. I'm having a hard time trying to elaborate any further at the moment but I just wanna know if anyone else has or has been known to go through these same or similar feelings and if so they would like to share?

It's probably just another phase and I'll get over it eventually, as I have experienced these same feelings numerous times in the past. I'm just really distraught right now...

I think quite a lot of people can relate to your feelings - I certainly can. But I also think that your initial thoughts where not wrong: vore is a very complex and unique thing to enjoy. A thing to also show you to which extend a human being is able to enjoy the most remote thought possible.Whatever it is what separates man from beast. Vore is surely one of it. It is not a shame to be not understood. This happens quite a lot! I am totally with you to marvel about the people that actually do. Its like a glimpse of the true nature of our reality.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby THEDEMONWARLOCK » Tue May 19, 2020 5:57 pm

This has occurred to me before although only during depressive episodes. I suppose it's trying to enjoy something and that being the only thing you enjoy to the point where it becomes stale. So stale that you actually begin to hate it because it's all that experience. Perhaps you may be waning due to something akin to an obsession??? I wouldn't really want to say that, it seems more like a "bore" of the same old thing. I'd suggest going off and exploring something new. Something not vore-related. Surely there might be something out there to excite you. If you'd like to abstain from anything sexually related then maybe just uh...Do something else I suppose. I wish you luck on your journey where ever it may take you!
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby Fernnaut » Wed May 20, 2020 4:54 pm

It happens, it comes and goes. I'm sure all things in life are this way. Sometimes you need a break.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby Miridium » Thu May 21, 2020 7:23 pm

Take a break. It'll do you good.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby whizbang18 » Fri May 22, 2020 3:55 am

Fetishes for me have their ebbs and flows and they can come in as little as a matter of days but I've had episodes where this fetish actually caused me some distress or at least made me worried that my mind would get too warped if I wasn't careful. Sometimes, it's best to see it as changing of weather or seasons and that one is having a 'cold' spell. I've sometimes felt this after making artwork revolving around this fetish.

There's life beyond just merely this fetish but for me, it's a huge relief that I'm not alone on having this strange turn-on. There are areas and aspects of this site that I do my best to steer clear of (Especially anything involving 'underaged' characters, real or fictional) but others give me a much-needed avenue to channel out parts of me I would never dare in the 'real world'.

It's best to take a break from fetishes and let them 'recuperate' as they say.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby Scrumptious » Fri May 22, 2020 5:12 am

I wonder if I agree with the statement, even if in a different spirit.

I am not 'sick of' my fetish in terms of being tired of it. I am definitely not tired of it. I want it more and more. However, I wonder if it is making me increasingly mentally ill in terms of undermining my self-confidence.

Like the majority here, I identify as prey. I don't know if that is an initial function of having self-confidence issues. I think that the attraction to vore is more primordial than that. Nevertheless, I do fear that fantasies of being prey (and sundry, with related fetishes) perpetuate a subconscious mental process that hurts my ability to be an dominant force in my own life.
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Re: I'm growing sick of this fetish.

Postby Jayezox » Fri May 22, 2020 8:46 am

When I dug into the roots and found out it's trauma based I had that phase. Now I find novelty in how my vore fetish is completely different from what got it stuck in my mind. Heck, there are some ways I corrected my thinking with vore.

That said, I would never glorify this fetish, but now that we have it we have to make the best of it.
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