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Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Dekkard2 » Mon Mar 13, 2023 10:07 pm

I've had a lot of trouble with having energy to draw lately, especially vore. I tend to wack off while drawing, when I finish jo-ing, I'm too tired to finish the thing I was drawing. Does anyone else have this problem and how do I work around it?
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby GobbledMini » Mon Mar 13, 2023 10:35 pm

All the time... I'm just learning to draw, after never having bothered for years. Trying to look at vore artworks to copy and learn linework etc. Hardest thing I've done in my damn life. I wanna be a fetish artist, but I'll be damned if I have the self control... If you ever find a way through this, please let me know hahaha <3

And yeah, if anyone actually has any advice, it's needed lol ;P

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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby alockwood1 » Mon Mar 13, 2023 11:22 pm

Know the feeling man. I can't write descriptive sex/swallowing scenes for a similar reason. Got to lay in bed when the imagination goes hyper.

Thus, I tend to skimp over it.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby GastricAztec » Tue Mar 14, 2023 12:36 am

When I first started writing shrinking stories, I would get horny, but I got accustomed to it and the horniness wore off. Just give it time.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby voreingsparten » Tue Mar 14, 2023 1:47 am

GastricAztec wrote:When I first started writing shrinking stories, I would get horny, but I got accustomed to it and the horniness wore off. Just give it time.


Has that diminished your capacity to get aroused to the things you've been writing at all? Cause that's what we've always heard when it comes to this sort of thing.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby the_Wolf » Tue Mar 14, 2023 2:57 am

There's honestly a zone you have to get into in my opinion. It's good to be at least some level of horny when creating NSFW/fetish content because that'll infuse itself into the work. Granted, it's also possible to create good stuff from a purely business standpoint, and each person's creative process is different, but getting to a state where I'm aroused and can keep the arousal while pushing off actual climax is what works for me.

Having a background hum of horny while creating and being able to delay gratification is in some ways a practiced skill. It's tempting to just go for it when you hit a certain arousal level, but if you can come back down to a lesser degree of arousal a bit after hitting a high point (almost like edging), then a lot of good creative stuff can come while you're ramping up again. And eventually, you can quit for the moment when you do finally need to climax and wait for your refractory period to be over, potentially coming back to the project later.

It's what works for me a lot of the time, your mileage may vary.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Matteo42 » Tue Mar 14, 2023 6:21 am

On a thread about the literal opposite of this (not being excited by your own work), I read someone talking about creating content with an image/a scene in mind.

Now, I'm a writer, can't say this applies to drawing because I can't bloody draw, but this is how I've always worked. The mentality I always keep is to work on a project that'd be great without the vore. If I can make the same story function without these things by adding in some other stuff to replace it, then I'll be happy with it most likely. Like I said, this is for stories, I have no idea how this translates to drawing - especially smut - so maybe keep in mind to focus on how you're doing it, instead of what you're doing. If you always focus on what you're making, you'll spend more time getting excited by it. If you think of it as something else that has the same shape or whatever, I think you'll be less into it, no?



or that's just complete bullcrap, and I'm a degenerate for who that works xD
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Miridium » Tue Mar 14, 2023 6:25 am

Just keep at it on a daily basis and you'll desensitize yourself.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby ReigntheWeremunk » Tue Mar 14, 2023 12:27 pm

Miridium wrote:Just keep at it on a daily basis and you'll desensitize yourself.

Been at the vore game for about 11 years, and still waiting for that moment
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby TW » Tue Mar 14, 2023 12:56 pm

I finish the work first. Use it as a reward for a job well done. Much more satisfying.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Voraciousmoga » Tue Mar 14, 2023 2:15 pm

I will say this, there might be an underlying issue here if this is something you experience often. I would not recommend taking advice from others that suggest you to keep at it until your desensitized by it. That would be engineering your brain for disaster. It's best to find a balance and/or often take a break from vore altogether.

Something that helps me through a similar issue or just burnout altogether is to have two galleries one for vore related debauchery, while the other is something your passionate about. Drawing fanart or something productive like practicing fundamentals or learning new drawing software, doesn't even have to be drawing really. I just love drawing myself and only drawing vore for long periods of time brings me a feeling of self indulgence and shame to a certain extent. Try drawing something your proud of and could potentially show others. You'd be surprised how much more enthusiastic you'll be when you return to the kinky stuff. You feel motivated, confident, and maybe you picked up a new skill or two along the way.

This also applies to masturbating as well. Try to abstain from that for a short while. Something I do is I'll often focus on other things until the horniness builds up. Once desire overwhelms you and you've spent a few days without wanking it, go ahead and have a good wank off. Try using your imagination rather than relying on images and porn. At that point you've satiated the build up and can even lean into drawing vore with some of that pent up energy off the chest. It's very important to try and get into habits where you can put it away while you draw. I know it's very hard when you have some steamy ideas and it's coming to fruition but you must try. Otherwise you'll be left with all of these great ideas and with no way to complete them.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby GastricAztec » Tue Mar 14, 2023 4:59 pm

voreingsparten wrote:
GastricAztec wrote:When I first started writing shrinking stories, I would get horny, but I got accustomed to it and the horniness wore off. Just give it time.


Has that diminished your capacity to get aroused to the things you've been writing at all? Cause that's what we've always heard when it comes to this sort of thing.


I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even get turned on any more by my own writing as I’m writing it, I’m more concerned with the non-sexual elements of the story. Sometimes I have to masturbate to get into the zone and actually come up with good dialogue for my characters, otherwise, it’s strictly nuts and bolts like a mainstream story, with no erotic elements.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Humbug » Tue Mar 14, 2023 5:43 pm

Surprised no one said this: Challenge yourself as an artist/writer/etc. If you're focusing on improving your craft with the initial drive being horniness, it's a pretty good way to lower the libido without killing it outright and have it humming while you do something difficult. The two actually work together surprisingly well.
Try perspective shots and foreshortening. Use anatomy references and learn where muscles, bones, and organs are and how they work. Learn shading/lighting/color theory.
Once you've gotten the gist of those, learn how to manipulate them to increase the power of what you're drawing. A perspective shot of a predator looming over their prey with one or both hands foreshortened to look massive over them creates a sense of impending doom. Vore is already ridiculous with anatomy and is only improved if you know how and where to break the rules to make cool shit happen. A well-shaded piece can dramatically change the mood, and if you know how that stuff works, you can heighten the scenario.

From the looks of it, Dekkard2, you've already honed your craft pretty well, but there is always room to improve, and being conscious of the process while pushing your boundaries can help put more focus on art and less on the fetish while still maintaining the appropriate level of horny for inspiration.

Obviously everyone works differently. This is just a suggestion that may or may not work, but it certainly couldn't hurt.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby VGirlsNation » Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:41 am

I have a similar problem but work on it as a reward basis to myself.

So like if I'm doing a story that's really getting me going I'll decide for example that I'm doing 4 paragraphs today, then once I've done the 4 it's reward time
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Carlis » Wed Mar 15, 2023 3:47 pm

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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby DevourerOfLolis » Wed Mar 15, 2023 8:13 pm

Oooohhhh boy, can I relate to you. It's honestly infuriating how much I suffer this problem.
The best advice I can give is to just power through it. It's hard, but thinking about it giving you something to actually look at/read while you whack off does help as well.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby TETRO » Fri Mar 17, 2023 12:59 pm

Sheer determination. You just gotta practice keeping your head in the game
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Aces » Fri Mar 17, 2023 6:53 pm

Don't let the devil's sway keep you from your work! Abstain and create your art! Such as the Lord intended!

... Then jerk off to it afterwards. :B

Humor aside, powering through is really the best option and if you find that you are able to work through it, you'll also make some of your best work.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby MementoMori » Fri Mar 17, 2023 6:57 pm

This is a bit of an embarrassing/private subject, but I do have some advice I can give.
First off, I try to keep in mind the goal is the finished picture, not the arousal. Anything like that you get in the process is more or less just a bonus.
IMO it will be hotter and more worth your time once it's done, at least in some form (a finished sketch, a line art, etc.). So, keeping that in mind helps.
You can always pick back up and work on it again some other time once it's at the next step, until you finish it completely. I also would suggest to trying to make sure you never fap while actually producing it.
Sometimes if the idea is really hot to you, that might make you "cream your jeans", but I don't think that's really a bad thing as far as producing the project goes. :oops:
If you did lose inspiration for it at the moment due to such an occurrence though, again, you can always just save it and work on it again some other time.
Honestly, if the idea was so hot that you could fap to it even before it was done, IMO, it would definitely be worth finishing! :wink:
Last but not least, and really this is an embarrassing tip to share, but sometimes you can do the opposite, and get the ideas from what you fapped about.
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Re: Anyone know how to work through horniness?

Postby Mouthful » Sun Mar 19, 2023 1:15 pm

If I get horny in the middle of writing I’ll always stop for a fap break. They can actually be a good indication of how the story’s coming along. (No pun intended) If the session goes fast and furious then it tells me that I’m on the right track story-wise and makes me want to keep on going. If it kind of starts to lag after a few minutes and I have to think of something else to finish myself off then I know that the scene still needs a little more work before it’s ready. It’s kind of like actual sex. You might be able to form an opinion of what you think it’s going to be like with a particular person ahead of time, but it’s not until you’re in the middle of it that you find out how close your expectations were to the reality. :-D
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