Somewhat off topic, but this constantly amuses me because this happens so often to us women folk on the internets.
OMG Girlz Don't Exist on teh Intarweb!!!!1
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/article ... Intarweb-1
It's always a struggle to bring proof of identity onto a web conversation. It seems there truly isn't a way to prove one way or the other without meeting face to face and even then...
I'm not offended when anyone doesn't think I am a IRL girl. I just tell the truth and hope that every one else does too.
As to the question I asked about the big belly thing. I really can't imagine carrying around a full grown adult belly for any length of time. Maybe over night would be ok, but I'm thinking walking would be a problem otherwise and my imagination just can't seem to overcome that idea. I also think having a 9mo belly would be troublesome. I mean....I go to work one day and have this big ol belly and the next not? Odd. Or, I have a 9 mo belly (which looks very different than being overweight) and never show up with a small belly and baby pictures. It would be problematic and again my imagination has trouble with that. There is a story by Groblek called Costuming that I think addressed that situation rather nicely. I really like that story (kudos to Groblek! I'm such a fan!) Anyways. I like the idea of the flat belly with the person within and no one knowing. Especially if it is pleasurable for both. How naughty is that?
I think control probably plays a large role in the unwilling unbirth. Really how could it not? But as to the willing unbirth I'm not so sure. It probably
depends on the person. I'm thinking that control is a small part of the experience for me. I'm sure that any people of the Dominant/Submissive crowd would whole heartedly disagree with me, but then it seems that they see every interaction as a power exchange. And that's fine. Totally not dissing on their scene. But that isn't generally how I view human interaction, or at least I don't see that as the main focus. But I am getting off topic and away from what I was trying to say. So, I don't think that willing unbirth (at least for me) has to be about control and domination. It's more about sharing, and love, and companionship, and not being alone, and all that happy fluffy bunny stuff.
(making fun of myself here, but still how I feel about it) As a sharing of experience between two adults. Kind of like ultimate love making. Not as a Domination/Submission situation. Am I making sense?
I for one couldn't find a topic which questions such things directly 
Though I'll admit, occasionally being unwillingly unbirthed is nice for me too.
)....anymawho...
