Dildoman

[Someone92]

One blog I follow occasionally features dumb stuff feminists do. Recently the topic was feminism porn, and it mentioned the Swedish series Dirty Diaries.

I had to do a double take at the descriptions of one of the feminist porn movies:
Dildoman is the only animated film in the collection. It shows images of a men's club where masturbating adult or middle-aged men watch two women having sex on a pool table. One of the men is then suddenly grabbed by one of the women, who now dwarfs him. The woman proceeds to insert the man into her vagina. When she reaches climax, the man inside her goes limp. The film ends with a shot of the front of the men's club. Directed by Åsa Sandzén.

Quality-wise it's below what most of you guys produce, but I guess it's funny enough to share:
https://www.cutscenes.net/videos/8014/dildoman/

[saber25]

Erotic. The music was an odd touch to it though

[gullvy]

But what does this have to do with feminism at all...? My guess is some people who have a fetish that they don't quite want to acknowledge, and so they make a weird connection to something that it really has nothing to do with.

Almost all porn is objectifying, so you can't really make feminist porn in any sense of the word. Unless you believe that femdom = feminism, which I don't think is a valid argument.

[Someone92]

Feminist pornography

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Dirty Diaries is a 2009 collection of thirteen short films of feminist pornography made by Swedish activists and artists and produced by Mia Engberg. The individual films are highly diverse in content, although many of them feature humour and different forms of queer sex. The creative decisions were based on a manifesto with the aim to create pornography that is non-commercial and follows feminist ideals.

The film sparked controversy before and after its release because of sexually provocative content and the fact that it was mainly financed through public funds. Film critics were split in their reception; some found the film amusingly provocative while others thought it was dull.

==Plot==
The thirteen short films that make up the entire collection vary considerably in length and style.
# ''Skin'' features two figures, one male and one female, clad in full-body nylon stockings caressing and kissing each other intimately. After a while, the two figures begin to cut open the nylon with a pair of scissors to reveal the naked skin underneath, and engage in oral and penetrative sex. There is no dialogue and only soft background music. Directed by Elin Magnusson.
# ''Fruitcake'' is a mix of close-up shots of various objects and human [[anus]]es being licked, dripped with saliva, fingered or penetrated with [[sex toy]]s. The images are accompanied by a monologue. Directed by Sara Kaaman and [[Ester Martin Bergsmark]].
# ''Night Time'' shows a woman kissing a man passionately while filming herself. They both proceed to perform oral sex on each other while the woman later uses a vibrator to reach orgasm. Directed by Nelli Roselli.
# ''Dildoman'' is the only animated film in the collection. It shows images of a men's club where masturbating adult or middle-aged men watch two women having sex on a pool table. One of the men is then suddenly grabbed by one of the women, who now dwarfs him. The woman proceeds to insert the man into her vagina. When she reaches climax, the man inside her goes limp. The film ends with a shot of the front of the men's club. Directed by Åsa Sandzén.
# ''Body Contact'' portrays two women, one filming the other, searching for a man to have sex with on the Swedish dating site Body Contact. A man with a [[Scanian dialect]] shows his penis to the women through a webcam. Later the man pays them a visit, but is unnerved by the presence of the camera. The two women convince him to have sex. Directed by Pella Kågerman.
# ''Red Like Cherry'' is a series of quick, blurred clips of unidentifiable people swimming in the surf of a beach and then having sex in a room. Directed by Tora Mårtens.
# ''On Your Back Woman!'' is a series of clips of nude or semi-nude women wrestling each other. Directed by Wolfe Madam.
# ''Phone Fuck'' features a newly separated lesbian couple who talk over the telephone and eventually engage in [[phone sex]]. Directed by Ingrid Ryberg.
# ''Brown Cock'' shows the naked pelvis of a Caucasian woman. Her vagina is penetrated by a brown [[dildo]] held by a mixed-race woman, who then goes on to [[fisting|fist]] her. The two women engage in sex-related dialogue throughout the scene, commenting the sex act. Directed by Universal Pussy.
# ''Flasher Girl on tour'' is a semi-documentary manifesto of Swedish artist [[Joanna Rytel]] and her alter ego Flasher Girl, a woman [[Exhibitionism|flasher]]. In the film she travels to [[Paris]] where she exposes herself to men and expounds on her motives for doing so. Directed by Joanna Rytel.
# ''Authority'' starts with a lightly clad androgynous woman breaking into an abandoned lot in [[Berlin]] and spraying graffiti. She is caught in the act by a similarly androgynous female police officer, who chases her into an empty building but is eventually overpowered and bound. The two then engage in rough sexual activities, including spitting, slapping and anal sex. Directed by Marit Östberg.
# ''For the Liberation of Men'' is an abstract mix of clips of a man clad in women's clothing masturbating and close-ups of an old woman's face. Directed by Jennifer Rainsford.
# ''Come Together'', the short that Engberg and others made before the twelve actual ''Dirty Diaries'' shorts, is included last in the collection. It consists of Engberg and several others filming themselves with mobile phones while masturbating and eventually reaching orgasm. Directed by Mia Engberg.

[MindiFlyth]

That was interesting. I think you could see it as a real man-hating thing, where two women are objectified and then one of the observing men is made small and ridiculous, ultimately dying(?) inside the woman... or it might just be the filmmaker's own kinky fantasy, not unlike something many of us here might fantasize about. I wouldn't be surprised if the filmmaker claimed it was a revenge thing against men, or if she said it wasn't anti-male at all and this was just her kink. It could totally go either way.

Almost all porn is objectifying, so you can't really make feminist porn in any sense of the word.

Well, a lot depends on what you define as porn and what you define as feminism. These are subjective things. You could define feminist porn as erotica from a female POV, or erotica that depicts women as strong, compelling people instead of mere fantasy objects. I consider my own work feminist porn, to some extent. A lot of my stories follow sexist men as they are unwillingly transformed into women. At first they're outraged and horrified, but eventually they learn to accept it and even love it. It may not be feminist as Andrea Dworkin would have defined it, but it's feminist by my definition.